Is it normal that i don't trust my girlfriend?

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and its been good. The one thing I have issues with though is that I stopped drinking a while ago and she still does. She's a very sloppy drunk and it's very embarrassing when she does drink, I don't like being around it. But my issue with it is that I don't trust her when she's drunk and I get very worried that she'll cheat on me. We're both freshmen at college and she's obsessed with the party scene and her girlfriends (all of whom make me wonder how they got into our school). They like to go to clubs and house parties where she'll meet a lot of guys and add them all on facebook/bbm and I just don't like the scene for myself. I get really jealous of these guys and I get very depressed and worried without her, but when we're together she makes me happy and I love her a lot, I just get very scared and I don't trust her... Am I normal or just overbearing as a boyfriend?

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78% Normal
Based on 40 votes (31 yes)
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  • peterrabbyt69

    Try dating a man and you guys can suck each other off. Get a guy who is not attached to anyone else. And suck away my boy!

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  • PieGoblin^^

    You're 100% normal my friend. She sounds way too immature to be in a serious relationship, and seing as she likes going to parties getting absolutely shit faced, how do you know something hasn't already happened with one of those guys she's added on facebook?

    Seriously dude, drop the party whore and get yourself a decent girl you can settle down with. Who the hell wants to worry about what you're girlfriend is doing everytime she goes out?

    Again, very immature of her. Reading stuff like this makes me glad my boyfriend and I are both long over the partying stage of our lives. I couldn't imagine having to put up with such childishness every other weekend.

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  • ccjigsaw

    Maybe you should reconsider what type of girl is right for you?

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  • equanimity

    Tell her how you feel?

    She is putting herself in danger of becoming a statistic. You should chaperone her.

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  • Dazzie

    Yes normal. If you don't trust her when she goes out drinking, why don't you go with her?

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  • iwonderif

    Totally normal it means you care about her. Of course your gonna be worried about her

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