Is it normal that i don't see myself living with another person?

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I have been living alone since I was a child. I have daily habits, I make my own schedule and no one tells me what to do. The problem is that I can't live with another person, especially with a guy and this keeps me from having a relationship. I don't even let anyone sleep at my place. I don't like somebody else to know how I look without makeup, how many times I go to the bathroom, and so on. I know it sounds stupid, but I really don;t know how to deal with this issue. Will I ever find someone who is willing to have a long term relationship with me without living together?

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Based on 46 votes (39 yes)
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  • girl22
    12 years ago

    I talked with a lot of people about this and those who know me understand me. Many of them told me that things are not as they good as they used to be after living with their spouse for a number of years, and that they would like to live alone. When I hear them, I know that I may not be as weird as I think. The only issue is that I will have a hard time finding someone who enjoys privacy as much as I do.

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  • Gold_Lion
    12 years ago

    I think it's possible to find someone for whom your lifestyle would work, but in general people in serious relationships want to spend a lot of time together overnight or live together. I for one would not be able to stay with a man who was like this. Maybe you have not met the right person, or maybe you have anxiety or privacy issues? If this bothers you a lot maybe talking to someone might help you sort it out.

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  • jessicakoh
    12 years ago

    Living with someone is about making compromise.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Everything is possible but I'm pretty sure that's the case of one in a million. I know I would never be able to be with someone like you because of those reasons.

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    just get a manwhore since you don't really want any connection to a man that's the best way

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  • girl22
    12 years ago

    I first lived with my grandmother in separate rooms, and then she died. I first worked as a model(around the age of 15) and now I am a freelancer writer. Living alone is not as difficult as it may seem. I actually enjoy my privacy. I just can't see myself living with someone else, nit even in a hotel room. It makes me feel very uncomfortable.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Maybe you'll find someone who loves their privacy just as much. I have a question though, how did you manage to live alone since you were a child?

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