Is it normal that i don't romantically fall for anyone?

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Is it normal that I am attracted to women, but don't have any desire to date them or start a relationship? I'm not a one-night-stand type of guy, so don't misunderstand me as being only interested in sex. However, I just haven't really felt anything beyond physical attraction in a looong time. So I'm celibate. I'm bored. I long for a relationship, but no one's really interesting to me, and no one seems to find me interesting, really.
Well, one girl (friend of a friend) was flirting with me at a bar a couple months ago, but I didn't really pick up on it at the time, so she slipped through my fingers. I don't think I'll get that chance again (with her, I mean).
So yeah. Nothing. No prospects. No inspiration. Just bored. It's pretty sad, it seems.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    No, dude.. it's not sad at all. Reading your post was like looking in the mirror for me. Since my last relationship I've been exactly like you for.. about a year already. And even though I do watch porn and nothing's wrong with me physically, I just don't feel any need to get involved with a girl for any reason. Been thinking about ONS for a while, but I'm just lacking the drive to invest the time into the whole going out, hitting on the girl, playing the whole flirting game. Just can't do it anymore, and don't want to.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You are missing out because falling romantically for someone is quite euphoric and comparable to the high you get from cocaine. The only problem is if the romantic relationship fails you're left out in the cold like a withdrawing addict.

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  • Mmmpfh
    11 years ago

    Me too. I have a female friend who seems to be sort of attracted to me. I think she's super pretty. But for some reason I've no desire to chase after her romantically. And I've been single for nearly two years now.
    I totally just friendzoned a girl, haha.

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  • DollyBoots
    11 years ago

    Join a dating site. Go out more with friends n see what happens(:

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    If you're barely having any contact with girls, then ofcoarse that's going to be the case. Excuse me for this but...derp! If you had more contact with ladies, and I don't mean sitting in a bar, you'd have more of a emotional attraction. You can't get emotionally attached with someone just by looking at them. I guess what i'm saying is, get to know someone! Have a conversation.

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  • Bellaitalia89
    11 years ago

    I'm the same way as you, except I'm a girl. I'm 23 and I've never been in a relationship. I don't know what my problem is, but I get frustrated because all of my friends seem to fall in love so easily. How old are you?

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