Is it normal that i don't really like making friends

I only do when I'm one on one with the person.. I hate making friends when they're in a group , in a bar, in a party. Most of my friends, i have them because i've talked to them alone 1 on 1

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  • I make actual friends, not aquaintances.

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  • peanutgizmo

    yeah im exactly the same-i cant think of anything more boring than to hang out in crowds! i prefer my own company and find socializing a chore!

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    • Yes, indeed, i feel like it's a ''chore'' too

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  • I agree I don't care to make new friends either. I like hanging out one on one.

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  • knotty_moe

    yeah i guess this is normal cause im the same way.... not unpopular or anything everybody knows me where i live or atleast knows of me but i dont like being social either.

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  • lindsey0124

    That stems from low self esteem. And yes, that is completely normal.
    Especially in high school. Probably half of your high school class isn't into partying. Those people all have the same issue.

    The only fix? Give yourself a makeover and do immersion/exposure therapy.

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  • timebobbu

    ikr people dont act themself in a group

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  • lilBlondeQTpie

    Yes Im the exact same way sweetie. I get nervus and think that I cant make a whole group all my friends at once.

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  • TheConsciousElectron

    Who likes making friends. I agree with peanut that socializing is a chore. Making friends sucks but once you've made them, it's worth it. It just takes time.

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    • I agree !

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  • viper305

    I'm exactly the same. Although I am kinda shy and hate crowds. Dunno if you're the same.

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