Is it normal that i don't orgasm when my boyfriend fingers me?

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My boyfriend and i haven't had sex yet because i'm not ready, and he respects that. He is not a virgin though. I am. So instead of having any kind of sex, we just touch eachother. He orgasmed the last few times i gave him a hand job, but when he fingers me i have to fake an orgasm to make him feel like he accomplished something. I did notice that even when i masturbate by myself, the only way i orgasm is if i rub. Going in just doesn't get me off. Is this normal? I feel kinda bad for him cause he tries so hard to get me to orgasm and it just doesn't happen): please tell me i'm not the only one!

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    LOL. When I rub. Just tell him what to do you stupid girl! Whats the point in just lying there faking it? He'll just feel like shit if he realises you're faking it (it's easy to tell!) so next time just put his hand on your clit. Fucking woman. Expect guys to know what they're doing but don't say a word when they're not doing it right.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Are you SURE he's not a virgin?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    He doesn't know what he is doing

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  • FocoUS
    11 years ago

    Maybe he should rub it too...

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  • MissyLeyneous
    11 years ago

    Vaginal orgasm is pretty much a myth.

    In other words:

    The clit is it.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    go to an adult store and rent some videos on how to please women.

    or show him what you like to do to yourself.

    he might not be a virgin, but it doesn't mean he knows what techniques work for you. and many men don't understand that just poking a girl with a small finger ISN'T the magic unicorn ride they think it is.

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  • Gelmurag
    11 years ago

    Why don't you suggest to him that he try what you like? I can't imagine a girl letting me do that to her, and her not saying "no, like this" or "do it this way for me." A guy should care about how good he makes his girlfriend feel, and if that involves her teaching a thing or two, so be it. I'd prefer my girl to tell me/show me what she likes.

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