Is it normal that i don't mind my guy checking out other women, but..?

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But I don't want to hear about it. It's completely fine with me if he finds other women hot, if he checks them out occasionally (as long as he's not a pig), hell, he could even go to a strip club with friends. However, I don't want him telling me about it or rating girls with him or anything, that I find really rude.I mean, I want to hear about it if he's say, slept with another woman, or even kissed her, but I don't want to hear about who he thinks is hot or how fantastic that lap dance was, but I don't mind him actually doing those things...is that normal?

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  • plum6
    11 years ago

    don't listen to the other commenters, I actually think you have found a pretty good balance between what you are fine with and what annoys you.

    First I would like to say that I wish more women could accept that men are pretty simple when it comes to women and that we can't even help checking out an attractive lady or even having the urge to go to a strip-club or watch porn etc. For us guys it has nothing at all to do with a relationship, and it would normally not affect the attraction or feelings towards the woman that they love and care for at all.

    I also agree that you should not have to listen to him giving his opinion on how much your bf is sexually interested in any other woman. IMO that is just a matter of respecting your partner.

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  • Mason334
    11 years ago

    You guys well girls are wierd you let him Goto a strip club relly relly

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I wouldn't approve of lap dances and my boyfriend wouldn't either. ^^

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  • Mason554
    11 years ago

    Not normal not normal but how am I to talk I only have had 1 gf so I'm not shure but i would not approve I'm still with her but that's like saying my gf can cheat on me RELLY THATS how you girls are I'm glad Im dating a virjin at least she wouldent say that

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    I have felt that way before, but i realized the reason i wouldn't want to hear about it is cuz i really wouldn't want that to happen (strip club). I don't mind him checking out girls if they meet my approval.lol.it's weird.he never knows when it's ok.

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