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Well, I know, she's my mom and I must love her, and I love her just because it's like a rule. But I don't like her as a person. She annoys me all the time, and I think it's not just because I'm teenager. I'm scared that I won't like her ever... Have anybody the same problem? :(
it s perfectly normal my mom esdrops on my txts and truthfuly i hate the BITCH
Hey don't feel bad, I came from a very rocky single parent families..my mother was a drunk and still is. Has never stood up for me and my brother and rather choose a man over her own children. I've tried to make peace with her as I've grown into adulthood but it hasnt gone very well. The worst part is my 5 year old is the one who has to suffer. I feel helpless, I want my mother in my life because shes my mom. But we can not get along for the life of us. It's now to the point where I refuse to have anything to do with her. Honestly, if you and your mother are having issues and they're not resloving over time but rather getting worse. I hate to say it but you'd be happier in the long run not having communication with your mother.
What is it you do not like in her? Could you be more specific and perhaps tell it to the person you do not like? Like: mom, i think you have these defects and I think you should work on them. I don't like this and this and this and this and this and this about you. Now that I took this off my chest, where are the nuts? I have all I need to cook a nice stew, all I am missing is nuts, do you have any? No? Ok then I'll do without them.
Wow I didnt realize. I guess I am blessed with awesome parents. My parents are my rock. I am blessed. Sorry to read these posts. Hope you all came out above it all!
I honestly get where you're coming from. Sometimes I feel like I have to love my dad.
You're not alone. I appreciate and love my mom for raising me but I don't like her as a person either. Not anything extreme like her wanting to abort me though...
We don't have anything in common. She even hates my interests and she doesn't support me in my career choice. My dad's chill about it at least. For example I'm attending my dream school majoring in the field I want to work in for the rest of my life. I love animation and she wants me to do something more serious. I dread calling my mom on the phone because EVERY TIME she recommends different colleges and different majors and tells me I could always teach at a high school instead of you know following my dreams.
I talked about this to my older sister who had the same problem. "Mom expected us to be like best friends with her by the time we hit college, but we didn't have anything in common."
Hey, iam 34 years old and i cannot stand my mother, or my father. ya ever hear the story about the "whooping boy"? well i was always the "whooping girl". I am the only girl between my 2 parents and their many ex spouses. When i was a child my mom was drunk one night and i was awake but she didnt know it. I actually heard her tell her friend that if she believed in abortiion that i wouldnt be here. And it would of made her look bad to give me up for adoption. BUT MY GOODNESS. She still to this day does not realize that i cant stand to even look at her. Its funny i found this site today. cause just last night i dreamed my mother had died, and i was at her funeral. Is THAT normal? In my dream i wasnt worried about her being dead. Just about my niece that she is sadly raising. I was trying to get my niece away from her new husband. Some ppl should not be allowed to have children. i think maybe when i was young, and i mean like under 5 years old, that i might have loved her. But after the age of 5 all i remember is hate for her. I try to stay away from her, but she always finds out where i live and tries to come get my son. YA RIGHT. But yes, i think it is normal for some ppl to not love their mothers, and fathers. And i bet if u ask around there are many ppl that will tell you his or her father they hate. that seems to be normal by everyones standard, but why cant it be the same way for mothers?
Ive felt the same way at your age, now at 30 I still do. I disowned them. I grew up and she never did. Luckilly she has 3 other kids and a new friend of my sis to replace me so good for them! I dont know why some people ever have kids. I think my mom did it trying to stay at home and to compete with her siblings because they could not have kids....but not for the right reasons!