Is it normal that i don't listen to my heart?

Well,
I know it sounds weird but let me clarify it.

I'm a simple person but I'm always having a conversation with my inner
voice.

This happens to me everytime, whenever I'm trying to be happy for on my
own good. My brain always says no whenever my heart speaks about
everything to make myself happy. But pessimistically, I always listen to
my brain because it tells about what will be happen after all the
satisfaction that my heart yells. Especially in my love life, teenage
life and studies. Is it okay to follow my brain always instead of my
stupid heart?

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Comments ( 5 )
  • starie

    You follow your brain over your heart because following your heart will lead to either a fairytale love story or heart ache (pessimistic view: heart ache is more likly)

    The little voice is rational. The heart is irrational.
    Rational= "safe". Irrational= risky

    It's normal to want to save yourself from pain although i would give your heart a chance every now and then. It might be risky but it sure is more exciting while it lasts.

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    • AvrilLavigne

      Well said. Thanks.

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  • Skitzo1

    It wouldn't be normal if you "DID" listen to it.
    Hearts can't talk, silly!
    But to clarify and in all seriousness, I have no heart. I discarded it a long time ago, when I realised it leads you down a happy path, but the wrong one, although later in life, when you look back on your experiences and you followed your heart and made yourself happy, I highly doubt you'll have any regrets.

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  • "Follow your head and you may end up dead, follow your heart and you're dead from the start"

    Tommy, the king of all cats.

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  • bananaface

    Wow, imagine if you're heart actually did talk!:O I'd probably have a heart attack. Hmm.:S

    Anyway, how about you compromise between the two, if that's possible? Meet in the middle:D! So, listen to your, um, mouth?:S

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