Is it normal that i don't like to have sex because it hurts so bad?

It shouldn't hurt. Many women feel pain their first time, but it usually could be avoided if there was more patience involved. There's so many factors to this. Were you properly aroused? Was lubricant used at all? Did you have foreplay for at least an hour? Did he start with his tongue, then use fingers one at a time until it feels comfortable for you? Is he a large man? If so, did you use smaller dildos leading to his size? Were you attracted to him? Was it too cold or too hot or in a car? Were you comfortable both emotionally and physically?

Take your time and don't have sex if you don't want it, but I support you trying again when you feel comfortable and addressing those things above. Maybe start to masturbate to learn about your body and what you like, then use a dildo. Practice riding rather than receiving. It's much easier to control the situation that way and ensure your own comfort and pleasure.

A lot of times when people lose their virginity, they don't know how much time they need to take and rush into it--so yes it's "normal." But most people, including myself, would advise to practice better, more comfortable sex, by easing into it slowly. If your partner is willing, try having nights with just foreplay. Then if you feel up to it, have a day with both foreplay and sex. If it still hurts most of the time and you don't enjoy it, you need to slow it down and probably take a step back, and try again. If you don't enjoy it at all, then sex might not be for you.

It's very normal, However your partner should have been alittle more patient with you and have taken his time. Don't think it's going to happen all the time, You just needed someone who was a little more understanding about this being your first experience. Shame on him.

Use some lube next time.

You should search for a short dick man