Is it normal that i don't like to fight?

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Everytime I am close to engaging into a fist fight I try however I can to avoid it. I get punked all the time. I can fight, and if someone were to hit me first then I wouldn't give it a second thought before hitting them, but I can get pushed around and stuff and won't do anything. Somtimes I feel like it's because i am more mature than that and I can control my anger. But somtimes I feel like a fuckin pussy who can't stand up for himself. Is it that I don't like to fight or is it that I'm scared? Please help me I need to know how to end this. How can I conquer this "fear" if that's what it is?

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  • weinereater
    12 years ago

    Idiots fight and kill because they cant figure out logical solutions to problems. You humans will never understand that tho, they always have an excuse for violence.

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  • swagblack
    14 years ago

    An effective way is to fight in virtual world. The most barrier is just the awareness of "fear" you have just said. To conquer this feeling, you need some practise, of course, the great platform is the virtual world created by some online web games, where you can fight. As time goes by, you will find that you don't hate fighting with surprised.The Wars, a classic game, you can give it a try.

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  • cheetos123
    14 years ago

    same. if someone hit me THEN i would fight back. but other than that i feel its unnecessary

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  • normalcydude
    14 years ago

    It’s normal. You are the type that avoids conflict. This can be good if you always try to find a diplomatic or conciliatory measure for encounters.
    Just keep in mind something: fist fighting is the worst response, always. So you are OK.

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  • ThePudgyOne
    14 years ago

    I want to apply that since you don't throw a punch at all, let's just say you are lucky that you don't aggrevate or apprehend your enemy to behave more violent. In other words, you are good because I am the same as you are and I know its best not to fight most of the time these. I managed to get away from a fight from some stranger who had a pocket knife.

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  • Stealthssination1710
    14 years ago

    You are doing pretty good! You don't fight because you shouldn't. Everyone gets pushed around once in a while. I get pushed around in school, and when they really fuck me up, I beat the crap out of them and they never annoy me again. You are better than me because you can control your temper. I can barely control my temper, it's like I have this wolf-like part of me (you know, that thing about being alpha male, use of bites and relishing a good fight...) that wants to fight. Just beat them up a little bit if you don't like being pushed around all the time, just make sure you win it or they'll humiliate you too.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    you are more mature because you can control your anger. you aren't a pussy because you are willing to throw the 2nd punch. which, by the way, is a very smart move.

    let's just say that you do get into a fight, the 2nd person is always self defence, therefore, not liable. the first one to hit is responsible for everything that comes from that fight, whether it be your injury or theirs.

    you are a smart person, don't let those fools egg you on into throwing the first punch.

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