Is it normal that i don't like threesomes?

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Call me prude or passee, but I don't really like threesomes/orgies/relationships concerning more than two people in any way. And before people start bitching at me for being closed minded, know that I do not at all care what other people do with their lives. If it makes them happy and it's not hurting anyone, then I say go for it. It's their own business. I don't condemn or dislike people who are into it. It's just that I myself have never really liked it. Whether it's concerning an actual experience, or it's present in literature/television, I'm just immediately turned off. I'm old fashioned, I guess. Does anyone else feel this way? It seriously feels like I'm the only one sometimes.

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  • WhiteStallion
    9 years ago

    Feels unfaithful and immature to me to do that when I'm in a relationship with one person. Sex with feelings for a loved one is my preference.

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  • derpyderp
    9 years ago

    I like watching threesomes & group sex in porn but I don't know that I'd actually enjoy it in reality.

    The only way would be in a casual sex setting with people I had no real feelings for. However I'm not into casual sex so...

    As far as with an actual partner who I care about it doesn't interest me.
    Just can't see it ending well

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  • LIGHTHOUSE
    9 years ago

    I love threesome especially MFF

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  • randypete
    9 years ago

    i love threesomes they are hot and horny

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  • DarQness
    9 years ago

    you're not alone. i feel and think the same way, its not for me, but other people are not bad for doing it. if it works for someone else, i say go for it. but i'm more of a one on one.

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  • TareBear20
    9 years ago

    I would never be able to engage in a sexual act that involves me sharing my man, period. I am strictly a one guy gal and a long term relationship kind of girl. I don't waste my time anymore.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    That's obviously normal. You're certainly not alone, but I enjoy them myself.

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  • Pseodonihm
    9 years ago

    It's too much work.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Just out of curiosity, have you ever done any of that, or is your dislike based on something other than experience?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      To be truthful, I've never actually been involved in one, but I have been getting several offers from a persistent, polyamorous friend. But to be fair, if something is a turn-off right off the bat, it's not as though actually going through with it would change my opinion of it. That's like telling a gay person that they're not really gay if they haven't had intercourse with someone of the opposite sex. It's just something that doesn't get you excited, and there's not much around that. I'm also pretty sure that I wouldn't enjoy sex with a mace, and I don't think I have to actually experience it to know that.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I feel the same. I hate threesomes.

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