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I don't like having sex with my boyfriend because his penis is small, I think about sex with other men... with bigger penis'.
You don't love him, if you love him you won't even notice how small it is
You sound like the prissy kind that just lies there like a wet rag and expects to be serviced. No wonder his cock is small, he's with a frigid bitch.
I'm curious. How do lesbian couples make their relationships work when neither of them has a penis as part of their anatomy?
If lesbian couples can make it work with tongues, dildos, strap-ons, vibrators and scissoring each other then surely a MF couple could make it work where the guy isn't exactly hung like a horse?
for example he could use a big strap on on you
You should like fucking him not because of the size of his dick, but who it's attached to.
Look at all the guys hating on you cuz they're worried some girl could say the same about them...
Penis size DOES matter. Not for everyone, but for a lot of people. Some women come really easily, some need a bit more meat and some don't come at all. It's all to do with your anatomy and really not your fault any more than his anatomy is his fault.
I had a long relationship with a guy with a small penis, and even though I really, really loved him, I never enjoyed the sex. Eventually, I left him, because sex is an important part of a relationship - it's the difference between a friendship and a romantic bond. If the sex isn't enjoyable, the relationship will fall apart in the end, it's a crucial part of what holds you together. I tried everything with him and it didn't work - and over time the fact that the sex was bad eroded even my physical attraction to him. I still feel sad thinking about it now because I wanted it to work so much.
My advice is to leave now and save you both the future heartbreak.
Everything you said is probably the truth. But if I had been you, I wouldn't have said it anyway. I'm sorry, but talking about this kind of thing is just about as insensitive as mentioning studies that show black people are less intelligent than the other races to justify rejecting them. Sure, it might be based on fact, but that doesn't mean it's not extremely hurtful to a large proportion of people who can't escape who they are. You're also using a fact to justify rejection and dismissal. The way you said "look at all the guys hating on you", that was inflammatory. "Penis size DOES matter," that's just rubbing salt in the wound.
I don't know whether or not you're aware, but some guys think the only thing that makes them a man is their dick size. Sure, that's incredibly shallow, but that doesn't change how they feel. There are men who commit suicide over this. They're probably desperate for validation, and your kind of comments could theoretically send them over the edge. Think about it from their point of view. If someone with a very small penis read your comment, he might think there's no point of him ever trying to find love, especially because you sound so sure of yourself. You almost come off as if you're sick of guys complaining about it, as if it's trivial, but when it comes to feeling insecure about something that makes someone feel inferior, there's no way to put it lightly.
You weren't trying to be mean, but you still end up alienating a lot of guys out there. I know this has come off like a huge guilt trip, and I don't think you necessarily did something "wrong". You just told the truth: your truth, but I'd like to open your eyes to how serious some guys take this. I used to think it was silly to focus on something so superficial too, but in the end, what you said about sex being so important for a lot of relationships is true, and someone once gave me the exact same talking to I'm giving you now. Just because a problem doesn't concern you or bother you, doesn't mean it's stupid for someone else to have that concern. We're all wired differently, after all.
For the record, I do agree with advice you gave to the OP. I just hope she can deliver the truth in a way that spares his feelings, if that's possible.
this comment made me cry. you are a beautiful person and god bless you. im screenshotting this comment. thank you so much man.
Thanks for your comment, I appreciate what you said and will take it on board. I didn't mean to be incendiary - it was a reaction to what I saw as the OP getting hated on for something she can't control, ie that she can't get satisfaction from a smaller penis. I did say it doesn't matter for everyone - everyone's anatomy is different, for women who orgasm easily penis size is not necessarily an issue.
I know it's not trivial - my ex had been bullied as a teenager for his penis size and it broke my heart, it was horrible for him. I never told him that the reason I couldn't be with him in the end was sexual - I know there are women out there who don't mind and I didn't want to add to his insecurities. It came down to basic physical incompatibility - I would not advise the OP to tell her boyfriend she has a problem with their sex life either, as it is something he can't control.
I will think more carefully about the way I communicate regarding this kind of sensitive issue in the future, thanks for pulling me up on it.
I have a nice sized penis but this is probably the best comment I've ever seen on this site. Ever.
Ask him if he is into being cuckold? There is a good chance that he is. It is a very common fantasy among men of all sizes. But even more common among men with small dicks. Or, you could start watching interracial porn together and see how he reacts to that. If he likes it, which odds are he will. He may even ask you to cuckold him. That way you can stay together and have the big cocks you desire.
Personally, I wouldn't mind having a bigger schlong. That is, my own I mean. I'm not that well endowed either. About 6" and I don't think I can make my girl happy with that little thing even though she says I'm fine.
You need to move on and find someone or if you love him enough see if you can find someway to stimulate and make his penis bigger.
Your boyfriend might want to move on and date someone who knows how to pluralize nouns.
your not happy with penis means your not happy with him so leave the relationship and go look for the bigger penises