Is it normal that i don't like people saying "i love you"?

whenever my friend says "I love you" or "we love you" or anything like that, I tell them not to say it if they don't really mean it. I just don't think it's good idea to say that meaninglessly. I don't know if there is any meaning in the word "love" anymore. am I the only one who keeps it for the right one? is it weird that I tell my friends those stuff?

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  • Shackleford96

    Yes, it has become such a casual word that it has lost some of it's tenuity. You are normal for wanting to preserve it.

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    • Neo.T

      I also agree

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  • I'm the same as well. When my friends told me they love me, I felt hurt and wanted to cry. Every time they tell me they love I thought they didn't mean it because my friends would tell many people "I love you," it never seemed special, it seemed like any other word and that made me sad. I always thought "I love you" was meant for only one person the special someone because my parents never showed me any love and despised my existence I didn’t really understand the meaning of love at times it seemed like a word and others something more. I hoped one day I would obtain love from someone like my life partner…but as time went by I came to realized that there were other loves such family love, friend love, and companion love. When I made friends and saw how their family was warm, kind, protective and full of love. I felt awkward and mad. I felt the need to run away from this presence. I felt suffocating and uncomfortable because I was never use to such a thing I didn’t feel right to be there but then I understood there were such families full of love… Two people I knew were so closes to each other it seemed as if they were inseparable they were such close friends that they’d sacrifice anything for each other. I truly envied them for such a loving relationship. I came to understand there are other meanings of love and not only meant for just one person. Even now I still get mad when my friends say “I love you” so casually yet it makes me happy to hear such words because I love them may it be truth or lies it doesn’t matter because I love them. Even though I’ll never tell them I think they know hopefully. -_- You’re not the only one who keeps it for the right person I do as well and you’re not weird to tell your friends such because I tell them all the time...C: (sorry for my long story …I couldn’t stop. -.-“)

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