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My boyfriend wanted me to give him a blow job or a hand job, but I'm really grossed out by the thought of it. I love to make out and all that stuff, and I don't hand handling it through his jeans, I just don't want to touch it. haha
If you don't want to, then don't. If he can't accept the fact you don't want to do something, then leave him.
why would you be grossed out just to touch it,its cleaner than holding hands or kissing.
I think it's normal. I dislike oral (both giving and receiving) and have no desire to look at or touch a penis. I feel the same towards vaginas. Genitals are ugly, have secretions and just overall gross imo. I'm 29 and have always been unattracted to gentitals/sex and classify myself as asexual. Asexuality is a normal sexual identity. Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. Everyone is unique.
I am like you lady.
My boyfriend stands it because he knows I am very attractive and he always says he is lucky as we have an age gap.
Simply like many women , I do not find penisses are beautiful but they do things , me I do not wear or do what I do not like. Life is too short to be like everybody. Men are not men because they got a penis , it is inside the brain. He learnt sensuality and lots of things , I make him ejaculate after so many different ways. I do like you I touch it above clothes outside and he enjoys it as it is between us . A couple is respect of what both are.
I have never been with a violent boyfriend nor raped and I utterly love my man , and makes sure he knows it . He is sad I do not like that part but he knows I do not care not to be among what is said to be the majority , the majority is not always the truth and couples are not to be the same , they are not. I am not a lesbian and I am very happy to be a woman , yes I enjoy not getting something hanging among lots of other things .
If you don't like touching it and don't eventually learn to truly enjoy touching it, then all of your future boyfriends will spend a great deal of their time with you frustrated and possibly feeling rejected. If you do it anyway, but don't like it; they can tell and that's also unfulfilling. And when a woman comes along that desperately WANTS to see, touch and taste your man's penis, (and eventually, that will happen); it will be very difficult, if not impossible, for them to resist. I'm guessing you're young. Because I've known young ladies who felt that way, but as they got older, they came to like it very, very much. Loosen up. You want him licking yours, don't you? That's a two-way street.