Is it normal that i don't like my husband watching pornography?

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So, I got married a little while ago and I'm unhappy wig the thought that my husband watches porn. It makes me feel like I'm no needed and that he's bored with me and needs to see something better than what I have to offer. I love him a lot but this just just makes me feel funny. We talked about it and he said I'm blowing this situation out of proportion. I tell him its one thing to be dating and watching that stuff when I'm not around. But when you're married and your always together...i just don't think that's appropriate! I feel stupid when we talk cause he just sits there wig the so what look on his face. It makes me super depressed and knows something is wrong but I don't know how to tell him any other way. Is it normal that I feel this way!??

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  • Scarecr0w
    12 years ago

    Women being insecure? Well, I never!

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  • trickydick
    12 years ago

    Try watching with him it's a great turn on an you'll learn new exciting stuff to try together get with it or loose hi to a whore

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I told him That if he wants to watch something he can do it with me. He told m that sometimes he jut doesn't have energy to have sex so likes that...idk I think it's just not good for our relationship.??

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  • Gelmurag
    12 years ago

    My best female friend is pretty upset with her guy watching porn also. There are some things I like porn for that aren't possible for a normal couple, but if I were to be with someone, I'd tell them off the bat I like a variety of things, sometimes a specific type of porn I want. But at the end of the day I'd come back to her always. So It sounds like your husband is kind of an asshole. I mean, he should understand that you don't like it and he can use you.

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  • aussiewolf
    12 years ago

    he was probably watching porn since he was 14 years old. guys watch porn, that is what they do. the more you push him to stop, the more he will do it and not want to have sex with you. let him jerk off, who cares. its just a video. he isnt going out and fucking someone else. dont be jealous of his hand. and just because you are married, that doesnt give you the right to give someone rules. you marry that person because you love them for who they are and want to spend the rest of your life with them. keep tightening that rope and he will eventually cut the line to get away from you.
    why dont you watch porn together and embrace experimentation. your husband will love it. who knows, if you open up more to sex, he could eventually be so turned on by you that he forgets about watching porn all together.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    So sorry about all the typos!!

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