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I don't like my breasts being touched. I flinch back if my boyfriend goes for them to quick. I mean it's arousing and everything, but sometimes they're tender or my nipples hurt, but even if they don't I flinch back. It gets on his nerves, and I'm tryinging to stop, but does anyone else do this?
I think it may depend on how your bf touches them.
Most of the time my nipples are very sensitive too, and it can hurt.
But if you make clear to him to be careful, and he is, maybe somedey you will start to like it :)
Talk to him how it can hurt you, if it is by squeezing or pressuring too much and where. He probably wouldn't like too if you bited his c*ck.
I friggin hate my nipples being touched! Especially when he's trying to be all extraordinary in his twisting and pinching. Just feel like punching him in the dick! Lol but I compare it to a guy being sensitive on his penis after sex. Like he can't stand bein touched. However I let him sometimes as I nearly spontaneously combust because of the ickiest feeling ever so he won't go and cheat on me. Bastard prob already is cuz he knows I don't like it that I'm just putting up with it......
Try massaging them yourself, it helps toughen them, and might help you get used to it :)
Sounds like you are his first pair of boobs. Train his ass not to attack them like a goat sucking a nipple. Otherwise the next girl will have to...
I think it is normal to like them being touched. But everyone is different. Mine are sensitive - but not in a bad way, not sensitive meaning they hurt. Everyone is different - it's ok.
I'm the same way. Why do men think they should be able to grab their wife/girlfriend's boobs anyway? If you're not feeling in the mood for boob play, then that should be the end of it. If he knows you're going to flinch then maybe he should stop doing it instead of getting mad.
Wow, seriously guys, it's not that I don't like it, I just find myself being defensive at first, I do let him eventually, he's just so quick about it sometimes.
Is he punching them? Twisting them? If he's just slowly massaging them. Than they shouldn't be hurting.
You just need the right guy touching them the right way. Then you would enjoy it instead of flinching away.
The first comment is right. When your alone in private you should massage them and queeze your nipples for 5 seconds 2 or 3 times a day. within a couple of days you'll get used to it and it will highten your sexual feelings.
Also tell him that they are very sensitve and to slow down
Yea, just make sure he knows theyre sensitive and tell him to calm it, like properly tell him and say you will give him better sex if he does etc.
Anyway sounds like his problem not yours.
Wtf?? Does he just go for them? I would dump him.... But if u like wen he does it, then search on the internet for breast massages