Is it normal that i don't like most girls i meet

Every time I meet a girl I usually find something I don't like about her. I don't know why it is, but it's like there are no quality girls out there. I've given up on the idea of a relationship because of this and previous bad experiences. It doesn't seem like many other people have this problem so I feel a bit lost and alone. It just seems like a waste because I put so much effort into trying to meet quality people and am constantly disappointed.

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  • ThisIsImpossible

    Its hard to find women with quality, most look exactly the same, sound exactly the same, act exactly the same, living the way magazines and tv say they should. Note I didnt say impoosible to find and i didnt say they all look sound and act exactly the same. Meeting a woman with an open mind is fucking delightful. Keep looking they do exist.

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  • la_uva_mojada

    i can sort of understand bcuz ive felt the same way. ive had my pick of who ive wanted to date and ive been there, done that, etc. my best advice would be to put the most importance on inner beauty when accessing your options. being in a relationship with someone beautiful on the outside a.d ugly inside will never bring you happiness.

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  • ccjigsaw

    Nowadays, I can see why... There's barely any quality people left in general..

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  • fullhouse

    I am like you too. I've always seen faults in many women.. But as I've grown up, I learned to be compromising and still relationships suck. I get along well with girls if they're friends but in a relationship I expect more.
    Now I am in a good relationship and my gf is simply awesome.. Hope you'll find someone like that too

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  • babe7575

    Quality people are rare. I am experiencing the same thing, only with guys. It doesn't always help being picky. Sometimes you have to accept other people for who they are.

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  • flowergirl87

    Maybe you're being too picky? Also, you have to give people a chance. It's not fair to make your mind up too quickly (except in extreme circumstances.) Do bear in mind that there are always going to be differences between males and females that mean they get on eachothers nerves. Whilst we're all human, the brain is wired a bit differently in men and women - although, I believe those differences are becoming less obvious as time goes on. Or it could be that you prefer men? Seriously, it could be a consideration. I don't know your feelings, desires, thoughts etc, so I hope you don't mind me being so matter of fact.

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  • Energy

    It's ok, many girls feel that way about guys too. Maybe we're all just Gay. Lmao, kidding.

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  • noemimi93

    Agree with frosty..
    Not all girls are the same. You just have to have patience and take time to get to know a girl before making your decision so you can see if she's right for you. Hope this helped.

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  • x1frosty16

    I am a girl and I just dont get along with other girls. I've always gotten along with men better and most my friends are male. I only have 2 women friends that dont annoy me and even they get on my nerves more then men. I guess I dont like the drama that comes along with females and guys are just more laid back and fun to hang around.

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  • kelili

    You are too choosy.

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  • fissionmailed

    You don't even need a girl to make you happy. They will only make your life more complicated than it needs to be.

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  • Mando

    Nothing wrong with having standards as long as you are not being perfectionistic and unreasonable. If not, and you need to look at that pretty seriously - then apparently you are fishing in the wrong place.

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  • Anime7

    Nobodies perfect, if you look at a person with the intention to find their flaw then of course you're never going to meet someone you enjoy. Some advice i got from a good friend would be to try doing the opposite and find something really awesome about them. It might literally change your life. Just try it out.

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    • Justsomejerk

      Clever.

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