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So I love my bf. But whenever I kiss him, I don't feel anything. I love being around him, holding his hand and cuddling or whatever. But when I kiss him, I feel absolutely nothing. I don't even close my eyes. And normally I don't like any kind of affection, and he gets upset when I don't want to kiss him. But I can't help it, I just don't like it.
"So I love my bf. But whenever I kiss him, I don't feel anything."
Proof of sexual/emotional retardation.
It's normal because your body is telling you that it needs something else from your boyfriend.
No, not sexual penetration.
You may need his tongue down south on your vagina.
Let him kiss and lick it down there instead of kissing you on the face.
My ex didn't like to kiss me and I was the one initiating it always! I felt sad and depressed to some extent. Other girl before her didn't seem to have any issues with my kissing.
If you don't like kissing at all, tell him please.
Sorry... that's not normal at all. You need to find yourself a new boyfriend who you want to kiss constantly and endlessly. This relationship doesn't seem to be working out and I don't think your feelings are as strong for him as you think... yikes :o you seem way lost and confused girl...
Unfortunately, no. It sounds like the two of you lack chemistry, or he may be a bad kisser. If kissing isn't important to you, then your relationship may be fine, but I would reconsider if you're the kind of person who needs physical affection.
Kissing can be weird. I remember my first kiss. It was sooo gross i almost threw up in my mouth. But in time, you get used to the feeling and it should become pleasurable. Are you new to kissing. Was he the only person you kissed?
This. Do you have a general aversion to kissing, always disliked it, or just recently? What kind of kiss? I don't like sloppy makeout sessions, preferring quiet ones, personally. Maybe its just the difference between your preference, and his execution. If so, train the boy!
yep, this does seem to be the key variable indeed. either the girl doesn't like the way he kisses, or she doesn't really enjoy making out in general. If neither of these apply I would assume this problem really originates due to a lack of romantic feelings towards the guy.
It's normal to not like kissing, although I do think it's unusual and I'm sure people would say it's abnormal. But I don't think it's abnormal. We all have our own tastes.