Is it normal that i don't like havin sex

One question....what does hurny mean?

Don't listen to gay boy dannygjk, you are not gay. I would guess that you are rushing into sex for the wrong reasons. You obviously need to feel a close connection with someone before you will ever enjoy sex. Having sex because you think you are suppose to isn't a good idea. Wait for someone that you care about and truly want to be with, when you find someone you can trust and care for there is a good chance your feelings will be different.

Have u any suppressed trauma? On medication? Been abused? Many a reason. Or maybe it just doesn't interest u. I'm not interested in sex at the moment coz it's constantly shoved in my face every where I look an our culture is so sexualized. I'm so over it!!

first off its horny, and if you cant even spell horny you probably shouldnt even be having sex..

Some people are with the wrong gender person and don't realize it for years. Perhaps that is why.

I think there are factors making u not wanting it but u ignore them,but they are there.For example the guy ur with is not the right guy or maybe effects or religion,parents,what it means to u to have sex...I am in a very religious country and a person who thinks about such stuff is considered a really bad person,in a really bad way,no body ever talks about it and I am not even supposed to date,I am supposed to tell my parents and get engaged!I hate that I have to lie to see my boyfriend!I feel awful that I have to lie for something that is normal and should be understood,but it wouldn't then I wouldn't have the permission to go out + I would be asked a billion question abt everything.So imagine if its something intimate like sex and u have to face everything in ur head when u imagine the response of what You've been taught since u were a kid,religion,parents opinion,the society's view and response ...It will never make u think about it till it's vanished because of guilt that it's bad .

You must see q doctor, obviously there is something wrong

Its not normal, but its acceptable. I feel the same way. The only time I don't feel that way is with my best friend Stephie, because I love her.

I hated sex for years and then I loved it and had great orgasm. You need the right person

dude whats a matter with u??

Jensapa i have not trauma. I have never been raped or forced to have sex so thats not the cause of my fear to sex although it makes sanse

Krunk fu or whatever ur name is what u are saying doesnt make sense

Gregg i agree with you i am not gay i love men

Thanks to all of u for ur comments

that's ok, but you have no idea what ur missing :)

You're doing something wrong.

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