Is it normal that i don't like hanging out with my man's friends?

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I'm a little anti social and my man has friends that he has known for 5+ years. Me and him have been going out for 1 year and I've met some of his friends but during the 1 year his friends have hung out together and my man has gone. He always asks me if I want to go and I say no. Because I feel uncomfortable and he always says "I wish you would come I want my girl by my side" and I always feel sad that Im anti social and rather stay home alone and he leaves and I'm left missing him :(

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  • DogTown13
    10 years ago

    I suggest hanging out with them and just relaxing! If he wants you around his friends, that's a huge sign of approval. Go, relax, and have some fun!

    I will warn you though, if you ever try to keep him from his friends, your relationship may end sooner than later.

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  • boom12345678
    10 years ago

    Your not trying hard enough.You are just scared of his friends not accepting you.As hard as it is and as much as you do not want to go.GO! and just try to be as friendly as you possibly can.If you don't take care of the situation now your relationship is going to fall apart and you will regret not doing those little things that make him happy. And then when you feel like your ready he will be gone and you wont be able to go hangout with him and all of his friends.Is it that hard to suck it up for a couple of hours??.I have been in the exact same position as you.

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  • Username125
    10 years ago

    If you are not there, one day he will find someone who doesn't make him feel like he's alone and you won't be there to stop it. He asks you to because he feels guilty for wanting more than a girl who he can't share his life with. He is giving you a chance. If you don't listen eventually he will run into someone that makes him happy and his friends won't mind because they already think you don't like them. This might be your last chance.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    smells wrong.

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  • ProseAthlete
    10 years ago

    Can you compromise and go out a few times?

    There's nothing wrong with being an introvert and not wanting to go out all the time, but it's sweet that he wants you with him when he goes out with friends; it would be generous of you to do that every once in a while.

    Maybe you can also invite people over to your house. That way, you get to stay on your home turf while seeing him and his friends. He sounds awesome; do something awesome for him and invite his crew over for dinner or a poker game or a movie. :)

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