Is it normal that i don't like either gender?

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Well, I'm 19 years old. I'm a straight female. I've never been told by any male that they like me, meaning I've never been in a relationship, kissed anyone, hugged anyone romantically, nothing. So, after these teenage years of mine being spent alone, I'm starting to feel nothing. I don't like females, I've determined that my mind isn't switching to liking the other gender, I just think all of my feelings for males is fading. I suppose it's not a bad thing, if I don't like anyone, I won't feel hurt by it anymore, but I don't know if it's normal to like no one...nothing...no gender. I just, I don't know if it's a psychological barrier beyond my will or if it's just a natural fade. Is this normal?

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    It sounds to me that you do want a relationship and that you are looking for a way to cope with the fact that you haven't had one and the pain this is causing you.

    I may be wrong but I'd predict that these feelings will come back once you find someone you have a crush on, who also feels the same about you.

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  • Kellbell696
    11 years ago

    There is 'asexuality'.
    I don't know much about it but from what I know sounds similar to what you are experiencing, might be worth checking it out, hope it helps.

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  • Lynxikat
    11 years ago

    If you aren't attracted to either gender, then you are asexual.

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  • EndlessSuffering
    11 years ago

    You said you're a straight female and you don't like any gender? Just say you're asexual.

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      I think that too asexual.

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  • howaminotmyself
    11 years ago

    Don't look at the gender, look at the person.

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  • jondoerandom
    11 years ago

    yeah, that's normal. I'm a straight male and I kinda feel like you do. With me it's not even a "barrier", I'm just not interested. Wish I'd figure that out when I was 19, would have so much time to do other stuff.

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