Is it normal that i don't like being on top?

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and we have amazing sex. The only problem is, I hate being on top. I've never enjoyed myself when being on top. I just feel like I don't know what to do, regardless of the number of times I've tried. Also, I'm a bigger girl and weigh more than my boyfriend. My thighs are very thick which makes being on top very uncomfortable at times. We usually go a few weeks til my boyfriend gets mad at me, and the I try to be on top and fake liking it just to appease him. Any advice?

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    You might hate being on top but being on top once every couple of weeks does not sound that bad. That's not going ruin anything. And the sex is great so I really don't see a problem.

    For the 5% of the sex where you are unhappy I recommend trying different moves. I always liked reverse cowgirl more than regular cowgirl. Or you can go look at some lady magazines that have like 100 sex tips.

    Also don't dread it. Get your head in the game.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Ha! I used to hate being on top too because I didn't know what to do. Now, I'm always on top and I mean always unless I complain and he'll be on top once every couple of weeks. I guess it's just something you have to get used to. Ride him! Maybe do it more often to get used to it.

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