Is it normal that i don't know what my personality is?

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They all say life will change your personality and who you are, but I don't even know what it is. If you don't know me, I'm very quiet and shy. If you've known me and I "trust" you,I'm generally happy and energetic. On the inside... I am angry. I insult people, call them fat, ugly, and fantasize about them dying (Not me killing them, of course), or upset. When a friend is sad or crying, I will comfort them, but on the inside, I'm laughing at them. I'm also very whiny on the inside, and I'm hurt easily. I cry when the tiniest thing happens, and I don't even know who I am. The voice in my head seems to be two people, each telling me two different things. One is very mean and evil, the other very innocent and sad. I've questioned myself about it, but no one else knows. I can't trust people, because that bad voice says, "They'll turn their back on you. They're talking about you. Laughing about you. They're not your friends!" I can't take insults either, because the sad and innocent side starts to get upset.
Is it normal to not know who you even are?

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Based on 67 votes (46 yes)
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  • sqwidword33
    12 years ago

    I love hou you say you don't know your personality, then give us an incredibly detailed description of it. i'll bet you expected this response.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    PSA - EVERYONE ON THIS WEBSITE: BE CAREFUL OF "BUDTHEWISE" - HE IS A FIRST CLASS CREEP, WOMAN ABUSER, RACIST AND IGNORAMUS ... AND PLEASE DO NOT LISTEN TO ANY OF HIS CRAPPY AND ABUSIVE ADVICE. PLEASE!!!

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  • wannarocktheworld
    14 years ago

    just always remember, ur rights are talked about when u r dead

    dude, same thing with me,used to be, no more now. i think its split personality disorder. i used it to my advantage. when i felt helpless and weak, i turned on the dark and evil personality. when around girls and in home, i'm the good guy personality. its all in the mind, specifically in the subconscious. they're all u want to be. but u can't be two persons at the same time. hence two different personalities inside-out. good thing about this is, it will help u a lot in finding the truth about all the emotional and spiritual mysteries and subtleties of life. u'll get more philosophic and well reasoned about every small thing in life. u'll know how people will respond, what to do when in what situation, how to mentally influence etc.

    i know this all gabber is going above ur head. but save it in a notepad. chances are, if u r already deep into this personality shit,than u'll feel like what i said is all true.

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  • ComboBreaker
    14 years ago

    Dude, i am JUST like you. Eccept its me doing the killing.

    It is not us to judge what or who we are, its for others to determin. Worrieing whats on the inside to some extent can be a concern. But since your not doing the concerning inside thoughts, your who youre image to others is. A shy,energetic, comforting, sensitive and emotional person that many would consider to be a good friend. As far as anyone knows... thats you. As for your own interpritation of who you are. Thats just something that youll have to peice together out of the events in your life. It will never be decided on one act and will constantly change. Who are you? ask the person next to you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    But you do know. You are complicated. You just said so.

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  • CharlieGunn
    14 years ago

    You are way too sensitive and self-absorbed. I mean, c'mon... no one probably cares enough to do you harm. Unless you are actively mean or perhaps way too eccentric, no one cares. And even if they do make fun of you, what of it? Why should you care? What is it really doing to you? Throughout life, people will laugh at you, just like everyone else. Get over yourself, try to gain some empathy, and stop obsessing over what your personality is. Yes, it's nice to have an idea of self, but you have to develop that self first, and as far as I can see, you are still very immature.

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