Is it normal that i don't know if i love my boyfriend or not

I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months,
He's very extremely sweet. He's attractive, and just cool .
But I've been thinking of other Guys lately. And I've been texting my ex from Like middle school years ago, I just don't know if I still love him . Some times I really want him and sometimes I can't stand him ! Maybe he's lacking what I really want in a man or he's just not my type idk . Have any of you ever felt this way ?

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Comments ( 9 )
  • WoodsLives

    I bet you're a high school whore with less morality than Jeffrey Dahmer. Do us all a favour and go stick your head in a blender.

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  • Ryan555

    Well I have actually had this done to me before and she cheated on me and 2 weeks later she wanted me back to then I replied fuck u and she went off crying

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  • ccjigsaw

    Sounds like that part in a relationship where you know you're going to break up, so you might as well. It's the falling out. It happens.

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  • Mando

    I gather you are not very old so it is not like you are looking at permanency or marriage. Get out and circulate once you've let him know that you would rather be dating than tied down.

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    • plum6

      completely agree, experience comes with age, and so does the ability to understand and assess feelings and emotions that you have concerning your partner. At this point in a relationship one should know if another person is able to fulfill the needs and desires required to be together.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Stop leading him on you whorebag.

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  • Sammy086

    Thanks to you both !

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  • kelili

    If you are texting your ex then it's normal that you are doubting your present relationship. That is the reason that my exes remain my exes. It they are called ex it's because it hadn't work with them so why do I have to keep giving them attention. I have much better thing to do with my time.

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  • lc1988

    If you're not sure then you don't.

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