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it's bothering me that i can't tell if i'm being checked out or someone is flirting with me it's just i wonder what it is . is it a certain tone or a physical action could someone explain.
It's totally normal. I have it worse: I can't tell if they see what they like or perceive me as a threat or someone they're rather not deal with. I can only see the intensity of the reaction, not what the reaction is. And before people jump to conclusions, even with future girlfriends etc., neither of us smiled in the beginning, so there was never that to go on.
so if a guy is looking at you or smiling at you when you arent even talking to him what would that be
Since the 'guy' may not know anything about you. I would say that he is just attracted to your looks.
Its most likely that a pretty girl could get just about any guy.
But for a pretty girl to actually be loved and wanting a relationship, you really need to go further than first looks ie It would be best to find someone who has the same interests as you. Unless you are all just looks and nothing else.
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ok so he was only impressed by my looks, ok how about how to put make up on still cant do that either
Regarding makeup.
Did you know that this is a bit contreversal?
Some (like me) say that any makeup does not look nice on a girl, I personally like the natural look, even with all the irregularities.
Your girlfriends and you should experiment with what looks good. Usually most go overboard the first few times, then less and less over time (this also helps because of the huge cost of this stuff!
Many large shops have free testing areas in the makeup area. You test one, then wipe it off and then test another etc.
In my view (if you must!)
Light foundation (ie don't look like a doll)
Eyeliner (I agree that even black or blue brings out your eyes more)
Lipgloss (believe it or not, I find lipstick tarty)
Nails (this is a trendy area best with nails that have more than one color involved)
That's pretty much it, except obviously hair (straightened and not excessively long) and clothing (I say this is the biggest area, if you are slim - flaunt it. I mean are you saving your body until you are 40? No, wear qaulity shorts (weather not important) and expensive tops. But above all, wear colors NOT black. Black is not fresh and open imo)
And smile girl, be happy. 'Girls just want to have fun', and that's the girls that get fun.
Oh and hopefully you are not one of those 'bitchy' girls, lose that around guys.
No idea if that's what you were asking, from a man's point of view (well just a personal point of view) But there you go :)
Since I'm a sole Dad, I've helped been involved with my daughter's appearance her whole life (obviously) so I might have the best of both worlds (what guys like - usually no makeup and what girls like - usually lots of makeup to impress other GIRLS with!)
well i guess i would say im pretty its just i am constantly outside and i want to know if im getting checked out cause i am single at the moment and just might like one of those guys
Checked out or flirting means they are likely interested in you, physically at least.
I suspect you are pretty.