Is it normal that i don't have close guy friends?

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I could go into how I haven't seen my father in nine years and my friend history but to keep things straightforward I'm going to focus on the issue at hand. My best friend is a girl. I have a girlfriend. Then I have a collection of friends who are girls. I have a few casual guy friends, but we are in no way close in the way I am with my girl friends. Plus, they're all losers. I'm not even really "casual guy friends" with anyone I would want to hang out with in the first place. Then there are some guys I would like to know better and become friends with, but I have no idea how to approach this issue.
I should also mention that all the males I would be interested in being friends with sort of intimidate me. To the point where it's difficult to make eye contact. It's like being intimidated by physically attractive people in a way. And that's part of it but not most of it. I really want this to change. It makes me think about my wedding. I literally have no idea who my best man will be. As for the groomsmen? Forget it. I have a half brother who is 13 years younger than me. That's really it. This wedding stuff is making this seem ridiculous but I feel very seriously about this. Thanks for your help.

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  • peterrabbyt2
    10 years ago

    Guy friends are a pain in the ass. Get a gay friend who can suck you off when your new bride won't. That's what you want in a guy. A good blowjob and some good conversation in any order.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Shit bricks i did just now.

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  • KnightTemplar
    10 years ago

    This makes me laugh. [don't take offense to my laughing please] man, aslong as you not gay or feel like you turning gay.. Don't sweat it.. But bro! Make a plan.., if you've never had or don't really have guy friends, you don't know what you missing out on.. The only reason why they say girls mature faster than guys is because guys are more fun and not afraid to do crazy things. You'll have fun, find some guy friends mate

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  • amaterasu
    10 years ago

    I have met many guys without many guy-friends (usually gay guys), so I guess that's quite normal. But let me tell you something, if you already enjoy your friendship with girls, don't try to be ambicious. Some people just bond better with one gender.

    But if you want to approach a guy to become your friend, well, you are lucky, because men are quite simple minded. Just by sharing a common activity, other men will inmediatly befriend you. Having a guys' night with beer will be enough to get close friends. Just try to be nice, humble and respectful... and the guys will like you already. After that, you could try showing your fun side or other sides of your personality.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    If I were somehow your bestest friend... (and I'm female too)... I would totally go to your wedding in a suit and tie, my hair stuffed up under a hat, and a stick-on-mustache to be your "best man". I'd even put rolled up socks in my pants if it made you feel better (to have someone standing next to you with a "package"). Best of luck!

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  • Pyon
    10 years ago

    Haha I wouldn't worry about the wedding so much, I mean you really don't need a wedding (at a church) to get married anyways! As for not having any guy friends that's perfectly normal. I mean, I'm a girl and all my friends are guys. But if you really want a best friend that's a guy simply walk up to someone you somewhat know and start talking about whatever guys like to talk about haha. Sorry this might not be helpful but really, don't sweat it! If you really need a best man (If you want a wedding) then ask your half brother, even if he is younger than you. Good luck!

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