Is it normal that i don't have a real desire to do any of this...?

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I'm a senior in high school and yea I smoke and drink and do all that stuff but seriously i have no real desire to. My friends just want to go out every weekend and get drunk and high and i don't really find that entertaining. Don't get me wrong, I'm not peer pressured or anything, I enjoy it, but not excessively. Theres just so much other stuff I could be doing....so is it normal?

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  • mayadukkha
    13 years ago

    Good for u!!! Do what u wanna.

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  • [email protected]
    11 years ago

    Whose putting a gun to your head?

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  • numb-robot
    13 years ago

    Im going on a 3000km fishing and camping trip for 2 weeks with 2 friends that I don't like, thats probably not normal but beggers can't be choosers lol I hate fishing, dislike camping and my car will probably break down towing the boat all that way, still gotta do something to pass the time and break the boredom, similar situation I guess

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    Good. Thank god there are normal high schoolers out there.

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    • nobody_
      13 years ago

      i agree

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Ant.

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  • TheLogicalJew
    13 years ago

    Of course its normal to have other interests besides drinking and smoking! You shouldn't be afraid to tell your friends "Maybe next time guys, I am busy today.", and then pursue other things that interest you. Its healthy to create and enjoy hobbies and have multiple ways to spend your time. If you want some good alternatives, in my opinion anyway, feel free to ask. All kinds of fun things to do :)

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    • sYki
      11 years ago

      Only do this if you have a backup plan. Otherwise, they may stop asking you to do stuff and you'll become a friendless hermit and lose all social skills and get stuck in a rut, people will notice and treat you poorly and assume you've always been a friendless loser and dig your rut deeper and youll miss out trying to get out of that rut.

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