Is it normal that i don't feel love?

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Is it normal that I have no feelings of love? I am not interested in relationships...I still have sexual feelings but not towards anyone specific. People tell me it's because "you haven't met the right person" but honestly I'm not interested in meeting that person at all. Recently my job offered extra pay for me to edit and add "love" and "feelings" to a print. I declined because I never knew the sensation and didn't want to disappoint anyone. IIN?

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    Don't you want somebody to love?

    Don't you need somebody to love?

    Wouldn't you love somebody to love?

    You better find somebody to loooove!

    Or perhaps you are asexual?

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    • those3simplewords
      8 years ago

      Lol I'm pretty much in the same boat as op...

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    I have learned there are different types of love. I seem to be able to love people in that I care about them, but the concepts of different types of love can be confusing.
    It seems to me that most people overthink their emotions, which leads them to be needy and illogical, which only puts them in stupid situations that don't even really make any sense.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Normal for you but not common, certainly strange to reject extra pay just to use those words

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Oh no, it wasn't to use them but to apply them...such as in making the image look like they are in love or have feelings...I should have clarified on that. I just didn't know what either of those words felt like so I felt I couldn't apply them properly to the print. :/

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        I find it really sad that you say you can't feel love but that you can't even imagine it: sorry, but that's not normal.

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  • jeim
    8 years ago

    that's completely normal!! perhaps you're asexual?

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    • daydreamer394
      8 years ago

      It's aromantic.

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  • hermione
    8 years ago

    Have you been hurt before, rejected even cause it sounds like you dont want to get hurt.

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