Is it normal that i don't feel like hanging out with my friends

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So it's summer and i haven't really done anything social except go to colorguard practices and i feel like a loser. The only person i feel like hanging out with is my boyfriend. He and i have been dating for 9 months and we're really close, but i feel left out from my friends and i feel like i'm antisocial. On the other hand, though, i'm happy being alone and hanging out with the only person i feel like hanging out with; my boyfriend. I feel like a loser because of this but honestly, after i graduate high school i feel like i won't have friends... but i'll be okay with that. It;s what other people think that i'm worried about. I've always had self esteem problems, but i just cant over look this. What do you think? is this normal?

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  • Lilbit2much
    10 years ago

    Im the same way, also in colorguard.

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  • scumfuck
    11 years ago

    you probably just hung out with your "friends" because of lack of actual real friends i hate people who do that .. you feel the need to have friends in school but when its summer you can just stay home so its all good WTF sad ... sorry but friends are there to have fun with ..

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  • WordWizard
    11 years ago

    It means you grew up and you might have outgrown most of your freinds.

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  • NothingxCrazy
    12 years ago

    I was the same way in high school and now that I've been graduated for 2 years, I don't have many friends still. As long as you're happy with your bf and you don't need social interaction with others, don't worry about it. I know I'd rather hang out with my bf all day every day than be around people that are stuck up with their daily drama rather than their life.
    I used to think it was unacceptable to not have friends because it's how i was raised but I am very shy and dislike being social. So I was upset about not having friends. but now that I'm older I see that having a lot of friends doesn't have much of a benefit. I no longer care what other people think. The one person I connect with is all that I need.

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