Is it normal that i don't feel guilty about staying in the closet?

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Everyone around me says that people that stay in the closet and deny their sexuality are depressive and dishonorable, since they deny or feel ashamed about their "true self".

Well, I think I am bisexual... but I don't feel like telling anyone, I don't think it will make me feel more liberated or anything.

I have only had one homosexual relationship... I don't believe it is worth it to tell people and then expect to be labeled for the rest of my life for something so superficial...

So... is it normal to think this way?

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  • moomus
    13 years ago

    Your sexuality is no ones business but your own. Normal.

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  • MarianasTrench4
    10 years ago

    Stay in the closet as long as you need to. I did come out eventually and you will too.

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  • Beowulfbrol
    11 years ago

    Answering you,if you don't want to tell someone don't. But Biblically and righteously it's very wrong..Romans clearly states so..Man was created for woman,and woman for man..no other way around

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    • acurasrock
      10 years ago

      Its not wrong just because you say it's wrong. I'm a straight guy, and I do have a few gay guy friends, and a few gay girl friends and they are all awesome regular people and I feel totally comfortable around them. Whom they choose to date or sleep with is not my concern and I will not Judge them for being different.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    The people who say that are either stupid or referring to those who really WANT to come out but are too scared. You're obviously comfortable keeping it your own business, and thats normal.

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  • dbwm
    13 years ago

    You don't need to tell people. I don't scream it. If it comes up in conversation with someone I trust then I might talk about it but yeah, not really

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  • thinkingaboutit
    13 years ago

    Its all good homie. Ditto to what everyone else is saying. You don't need to tell anyone anything you don't want them to know, same goes for sexuality. Good 4 u.

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  • Shrunk
    13 years ago

    yes i dont see why you would need to tell people, just do whatever it is you like and people will find out on their own. i always thought it was annoying when people have to announce what they are and be all obvious about it... straights dont have to do it so neither do you... just go with whoever you like

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    It's your own business but not something to keep from your gf/bf. They could afterall incorporate your like of the same sex into your sex life. Well minus an extra person lol. Honesty is the beat policy though.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    It's normal. Actually, I have a friend who happens to say the same thing about herself. She told me that she just doesn't care to be labeled, and that she feels like she is the way she is, because she's open minded about love and relationships. Moomus is right. Nobody has to know, and you don't need to be labeled.

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