Is it normal that i don't feel comfortable with oral?

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I am in a serious relationship, and I love my boyfriend. But I don't feel comfortable with giving him oral, even though I want to and I'd like to try it, but when it comes to the "moment of truth" I can never bring myself to do it. Is it normal for every woman to feel like this in the beginning? And if so, can anyone give me an advice on how to work it out?

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    Oral what? Oral Hygiene? Tell your BF to brush his own fucking teeth.

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  • ReoKado
    10 years ago

    As a guy I'll be frank and say I hate oral. Why, well after a time a girl nibbled on my dick thinking it was cute, I never as much as thought of it again. So my advise as a dude is if anything of technique NEVER nibble on a guys dick, especially not on the tip.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Hahaha, thanks for the advice, but i kinda know not to do that :p
      Sorry to hear about your bad experience though!

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      • ReoKado
        10 years ago

        Haha, it happens. As for your dilemma if you really want my advice, I'd advise you just take your time and do things little by little. You know like touching it and such. Not to be awkward, but try giving a hand job first, get a feel for it. Don't force yourself, but try to do things besides giving oral to your finally ready to try again. Also as guy I'll give you a little tip, the most sensitive part of our penis is the tip, when giving oral keep that in mind. DON'T NIBBLE, but licking and blowing on it makes for a sensational turn on. Your boy will think you're a pro in no time, good luck.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Ask him to dip his cock in molten chocolate then suck it all off.

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  • disthing
    10 years ago

    Yeah it's normal to feel nervous before doing anything new sexually, or indeed anything new in general. That's for men as well as women.

    Be honest with your partner. Tell him you feel nervous about doing it because you've never done it before, but would like to do it. Ask him if he'll 'guide you through it', if he'll tell you what feels good and what doesn't.

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    Just keep trying I guess. Remember that he loves you and you love him and you're not doing anything wrong. If you're worried about technique every guy likes something different but a quick google search should show you the basics

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