Is it normal that i don't feel anything when i kiss someone?

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I don't feel anything when I kiss someone. I've had boyfriends before, and I've been kissed by people I find attractive. But I don't feel anything other than lip skin against lip skin.

I always thought that the whole...weak at the knees, butterflies in your stomach bit was only in romantic comedies, but I've recently met some people who very strongly believe that it's all real.

I don't think I'm all that special or unique. I don't think I'm heartless, either. But the guy I'm dating now says that he loves me and I feel nothing.

Is it normal that I don't feel anything when I kiss someone?

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Based on 53 votes (28 yes)
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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    I'm completely the opposite. I love kissing. It's tip-top.

    I think you're normal though. Lots of people seem not to like it. Kissing is very extremely intimate, more so than lots of positions in full-on sex. People who don't enjoy intimacy probably won't enjoy kissing. Even people who do like intimacy might not like it, because not everyone's the same.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    You might not be in love then.

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  • peoplearewatching
    10 years ago

    Try sticking a dildo up your butt and move up and down for 2 min...this will help you feel things

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Do ever feel anything? Sexual and/or romantic attraction? Maybe, you are asexual?

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  • alextsang08
    9 years ago

    Did you know that more germs are transmitted when you kiss than if you lick a toilet seat?

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  • Shnaz
    10 years ago

    It's cause you kiss like a dead fish.

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    • JuneB
      10 years ago

      And you know this how?

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  • Aurora93
    10 years ago

    I don't get butterflies when I kiss/see/anything my boyfriend and never have and I've been with him for over a year. I love him very much. But I'm very glad I don't get that horrible feeling like your stomach's tying in knots because it's bloody uncomfortable. Overrated. Who likes stress anyway?

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  • Maybeoneday
    10 years ago

    I've never experienced this supposed life-changing kiss either. I've had passionate kisses but I have to have a connection with the person not just attraction.

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  • Holzman_67
    10 years ago

    Your hearts a mess you won't admit to it, it makes no sense but you're desperate to connect

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    • moon°moose
      10 years ago

      I love that song but I can't listen to it without crying like a baby.

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    • JuneB
      10 years ago

      I'd like to actually love someone, yeah. Why wouldn't I want to admit that?

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      • Holzman_67
        10 years ago

        Just song lyrics love.
        The song is saying that you won't admit that your hearts a mess. Which may or may not be the case but these lyrics were the first thing to come to mind when I read your post so its accuracy in your situation is questionable

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  • Who_Fan4Life
    10 years ago

    Instruct him to put hot sauce on his lips next time you two kiss.

    Your lips will go from this: :) ----> :(())

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  • Poleman
    10 years ago

    Poles are nice

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  • Gaddar
    10 years ago

    That's impossible, it's just your hormones are fucked up and you act like bitch. Share this with your bf or leave him.

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    • Energy
      10 years ago

      Someone's pmsing.

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