Is it normal that i don't feel anything when being kissed?

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There's this boy that I really like and we started going out. A couple days ago, he gave me my first kiss. I have never kissed anyone before then so i guess i had expected like, butterflies in your stomach, type feeling or something. I kind of just felt weird about it though. I don't know if this is normal or if i'm a bad kisser or what, but help me out!!!

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  • TerryVie
    11 years ago

    It's normal...while to some extent it comes natural, kissing is also something that takes a certain amount of...shall we say, skill?

    I take it your first kiss was just that? A normal kiss on the lips? Thats an affectionate thing, but not necessarily unleashing butterflies.
    Now, a french kiss is something different...but thats where the skill part comes in...if he pretends your mouth is france and his tongue is a german panzer, that won't work. But if he's doing it right, there'll be plenty of butterflies ^_~
    Thats where the good kissers separate from the bad ones, but hey, you can help him learn-
    bonus points if he holds your neck and kisses you forcibly-

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  • aurora73
    11 years ago

    I don't know how old you are but you sound young. It will get better with time once you learn what sexual desire is all about. You just don't know that much about it yet! But don't rush things it will come with time! Just remember that if faced with a rubbish kisser, saliva everywhere or small pursed lips or little lizard tongue or massive cow like tongue shoved down your throat .... then they will undoubtedly be rubbish lovers all round!

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  • VioletBlueHearts
    11 years ago

    That's perfectly fine. My first kiss I was expecting stars to flash before my eyes but I experienced the same thing: nothing. It just takes practice to get those butterflies moving. And I wouldn't say "forcibly"you should save that for when you are more experienced and know the way you kiss but for now it would be best to gradually test certain kissing styles until you find one that fits you best and then unleash butterflies. Good luck!(:

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