Is it normal that i don't enjoy sex?

Sex can be really boring. You just have to find what works for you I suppose

try anal

Notice when you said "in a great relationship"? Casual sex isn't fulfilling. Doing it just to do it isn't fulfilling. And when I say casual... Boyfriend is just a word ;) why don't you wait until you find someone you really love, and naturally get a feeling to really want to do it ?

Maybe most guys who you've slept with were just dazzled by your good looks (as you describe yourself with a nice face, and the combination of big breasts and a tiny waist), and maybe not thinking enough of pleasuring you. People can be very selfish sometimes, depending on who you have before you of course. Maybe these guys (except for this one guy in a serious relationship) were just no good for you, and just wanted to have sex with a girl with a nice body and face, irregardless of them loving you. My experience is, sex is only very good and intense if you share it with the one you love (and who loves you). Advice: don't have sex with someone whom you're not in love with, and who's not in love with you.

PS I must say you got me semi-turned on because of your description though ;)

I think that chick is right. Good for a girl but, bad for a guy. If its a girl I dont love but I just "like" I can rock her. But If I feel Im in love 2 seconds and boom. Im sure that dont help but it might be a parrell situation.

why not try group sex, let 3 men fuck u deeply on chair n floor or oral sex.

Oh, crap, there's an official name for it and everything. A person who enjoys sex only if there is a deep emotional connection, but I don't remember the word. (takes breath) Yeah, Normal.

It sounds to me like your libido is to blame. Just find something to raise your sex drive. Sometimes birth control can make you less horny or the things you are eating. if you don't think that's it, then try having sex with yourself. No one knows where you like to be touched better than you, so experiment and then you'll know for the next time you do it with your man what to tell him to do to make you enjoy it better.

You may want to consider therapy... perhaps finding out WHY you don't enjoy sex.

it may be something chemically based or it may just be a bad experience that is preventing you from finding fulfillment.

You also need to learn about your own body and what you like and dislike. Self-pleasure can help you out in this. I don't just mean going into a closed room and rubbing one out but taking your time to find pleasure. Start slowly, go at your own pace... and remember the journey is just as important as the climax

It's really normal. Most guys just plain suck I'm bed. I would say maybe one out of ten is good and knows what they are doing. I've had the same experience as you. One of my ex bf's was totally great but most if my other bf's were terrible and a few just average. It's really frustrating and playing trial and error is a nightmare but unfortunately your situation is totally normal.

well i just voted no because you think of yourself highly.

Just sounds like the guys you are with are shit in bed.

What are you, a robot?

"I. Dislike. Sex. Sexual. Intercourse. Bad. The. Only. Time. I. Insert. Something. Into. Something. Else. Is. When. I. Put. My. Floppy. Into. A. HARD. Drive."

I thought oral and foreplay is what most females are more interested in anyways.

sex is not that important

bottom line: you haven't found the right person yet.

You should spice it up and do some freaky shit!

Okay maybe that's not usefull everytime but did you tried to make yourself happy alone if you know what i mean.

your not doing it right

Is this my wife????

Lap
Dance
On
Him

Thatll turn you on

love is easly the answer. if you truly love someone then everything you do with them will fell more amazing.

No babe, you're fine. :) I had sex with this amazing guy whom I love (my boyfriend now and we still have sex) and it was AMAZING. Then I had sex with this guy and I wasn't even looking at him. I was bored to say and I wanted it to end fast. It wasn't great at all. K maybe he's smaller..

BUT I think the important thing is when you have sex because you love that person, not because you're out to please or to feel good. I think because I'm a girl, I get pretty emotional about it. I do honor sex. I'm so glad it's my boyfriend that's fucking me. :)

I hope you find the right one. All the best. :)

I'm pretty sure you'd enjoy it a lot more of you were in love with the man you were having sex with. Wait until that happens. If that doesn't work, you're screwed... Literally.

perhaps the ones you had sex with werent right for you...think about it lol, you had a serious relationship with someone you truely loved...and in every instance with another guy you didnt enjoy it near as much(if at all) perhaps its just that you wont enjoy it unless you truely love the person you are having sex with lol...just wait until its someone you truely love and want to be with and see what happens...and if you dont truely love the person say no, if he truely loves you he understand otherwise he dont truely love you and only want to be with you for your good looks and bragging rights among his friends(which is wrong i know but it happens alot, unfortunately)

*are* confusing. Excuse me.

All these Anonymous Story Authors is confusing :-S

You probably only enjoy sex if you are making love and have an emotinal connection. You hate sex just for having sex.

I'm wrong here.

I also have the same thing, i don't really enjoy it. During a girls talk, one of my friends said that she had never experienced vaginal orgasm plus his boyfriend never even attempted to oral sex. So basically she never experiences orgasm except for masturbation and yet she says she enjoys sex.
I think that it's just about tastes. Some people just don't like it that much even though they have sexual arousals.
My advice would be(through my own experiences) try to avoid sex for some time, then when you are really horny it might feel better. And maybe a little alcohol can be helpful.