Is it normal that i don't enjoy sex?

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I'm a 2o yr old female. I had my first kiss and lost my virginity to the same guy 2years ago. We still occasionally have sex every now and then but I only do it for him. I have never felt anything while kissing him or having sex in fact most of the time when he tries to kiss me I push him away. I don't feel attracted to him at all. My only hope is thinking it will be different with someone else but i don't know that for sure because I've never even kissed anyone else. Is it normal to be having sex or to be kissing and not feel anything?

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  • BettaFranka
    11 years ago

    Sexual desire is what separates a boyfriend from a friend, if you don't feel anything for him maybe he's not your cup of tea and that means you'll need to move on if you want to be happy.

    Another thing you don't tell us is if you have ever felt sexually attracted to other guys or girls, because if oyu haven't, there's a chance you a asexual, which means that your sexual desires are not directed towards anyone. It is uncommon, I believe, and the research on the matter is pretty limited, but it is not an abnormality either.

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  • iinmaybe
    13 years ago

    i think there is a reason for not being excited,he might not be a good kisser and he always do it in a wrong time or when you are not in the mood,maybe he is not good in foreplay or he rushes you by penetrating you,he isn't just doing it the right way that's all.tell him to let you have your time ok and ask him to touch your sensitive spots once you start feeling hot and nice and you get wet you will certainly enjoy sex, you must discover eachother's bodys.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    If you aren't attracted to him then you won't feel anything.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Either tell him how to please you or move on. If you remain in this never-ending cycle you are just wasting your time and his.

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