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I think my ex used to be a bit offended, but I don't enjoy someone going down on me.
Is that weird, and is there anything I can do to start enjoying it?
I think its normal. I used to be like that. I used to find it hella ticklish and I would end up laughing! Bf would get offended! :) Though I learnt to relax and give in to it! :) Ended up enjoying it all the more! :) Though I'd rather give than take, so 69 is a great way to do it! Plus I heard other girls can have massive insecurities, which interfere with their enjoyment during oral. It means you can focus on your partner's enjoyment, and if you have any insecurities, keepin' busy can make you forget them. I've heard dozens of weird things from galfriends- worried about how they look, sound, their scents and tastes- during oral! Not sure if guys get insecurities, though? My bf used to worry that if I gave him head, it would be degrading to me. I just put his arms behind his head, unzipped him and he soon changed his mind! Mutual enjoyment! :) Relaxing is the key thing, I think. Unless its just not your cuppa tea. :) Don't worry about it. Your partner should respect your wishes.