Is it normal that i don't care what women think of me?

For years, people have always given me advice about how to get a girlfriend. They'd be telling me stuff like "don't talk about Godzilla" or "don't act silly, act serious" they even tell me to act like a "bad boy" to make her fall for me. Seriously, I don't care. I refuse to listen to crap like that and turn myself into something I'm not just to impress someone. Why should I care what a woman thinks of me? If a woman can't accept me for who I really am and what I enjoy in life, then that's her damn problem, not mine. I'm a nice guy, I'm no asshole or "bad boy." I enjoy watching Godzilla movies, I love playing guitar, and I love drawing comic books. That's who I truly am and that's what I enjoy in life and if a woman can't accept me for that, then again, it's her problem not mine. Plus I have no interest in getting a girlfriend or a wife. I have a few f-buddies/friends with benefits and I get all the sex I want from them. So I really don't see the point in dating or having a serious relationship. And if this so called "right one" does come along, then of course I'll give her a chance and go out with her. But until then I'm just gonna do what I want, when I want, and who I want, and if you don't like it, then take a hike!

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Based on 51 votes (47 yes)
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Comments ( 28 )
  • NeuroNeptunian

    That's the smart thing to do. Relationships end horribly often times because people put up a front and dupe others into believing that they are someone they are not. Then that someone sees differently when that front wears off and everyone is miserable.

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    • vagman30

      Just goes to show how desperate people can be for a relationship. And for what? Just so they can brag to their friends and family about how they finally got a girlfriend or boyfriend?

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        It's not anything to brag about if you're unhappy because then you look like a fuckin fool when your supposedly happy relationship crashes and burns. Trust me, I've been on the short end of that stick, damn.

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  • iEatZombies_

    I'm not so sure girls are unimpressed with your interests- I think they're unimpressed with your attitude. Based on your responses on your poll, you're not coming off as a nice guy. You're right, you shouldn't care what people think about your interests- but you should care about how people feel in general. Your impression on me is that you just don't care. At all.

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  • dirtybirdy

    Rad. But what if I wanted to take a hike anyway? I don't need you to tell me damn it.

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  • westoptic

    ALWAYS be who you are and never try to be someone else. When you find a girl, you want her to fall in love with you, not someone else's idea of who you should be.

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  • Justsomejerk

    That's a bit sexist.

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    • vagman30

      How?

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      • Justsomejerk

        Because he has decided he doesn't care what they think of him based solely on their gender.

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        • vagman30

          Just listen to yourself. Do you realize how retarded that sounds? Gender has nothing to do with it stupid! The point is I'm not gonna become another person just to get others to accept me regardless of gender.

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          • iEatZombies_

            It sounds just a wee bit more retarded to be immature about your response.

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          • Justsomejerk

            Bigot.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Best advice is to be yourself. If tey don't like who you are they are wrong for you.

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  • dom180

    Good for you, I suppose. It seems pretty weird that anyone would give you unsolicited advice on how to attract women, but their advice sounds all wrong. I don't get why someone would pretend to be someone else to impress anyone, that's a stupid thing to do. I'm not sure why it wouldn't be normal to do what you want. If you're happy now then keep going as you are.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Right on, Man! You gotta be yourself. Insecure, peer pressure oriented people are always changing themselves so they can meet and impress someone and be in a "relationship" and for what? So they can fit in with a bunch of douchebags? I love Godzilla! What kind of phoney, insecure idiots would tell you to not talk about Godzilla? Keep up the good work!

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  • GuessWho

    I support your way of thinking, for the most part.

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  • mixwell

    That's a great way to think !! If you can think that way and direct your personality to make them laugh and have fun then you will get women.. I think the problem with most males is caring to much and trying to impress women..

    If you already don't care what they think you can just go up to them and be less nervous and have a good time without worrying soo much about rejection which will project confidence and women love a confident man.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Fuck yea dude. Most guys these days have no balls and just act like a little bitch, trying desperately to make any woman like them. Be your own man dude, the perfect chick will eventually fall into your lap if you just be yourself.

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    • vagman30

      I know what you mean. Most guys these days will do or say anything just to get into a woman's pants. Like I mentioned earlier, I'm a nice guy. I'm not a jerk or an asshole and I would never beat a woman. But I sure as hell am not gonna chase after the next pretty girl who walks past me like some lovesick puppy dog. Sure I'll say "hey what's up" to her and that's pretty much it. If she wants to talk to me, then she'll talk, and if not then oh well, there's plenty more where that came from.

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  • vagman30

    I used to be a part of a Godzilla fan club page on Facebook. One of the members one time, one of the members was saying that while he was growing up in the 60s and 70s in high school, it was uncool to talk about Godzilla in front of girls because the girls thought it was lame. I replied to that member saying "I talk about Godzilla in front of girls all the time and I don't give a rat's ass what they think." Just ask any of my friends with benefits, they'll tell you just how much I tend to ramble on about Godzilla mostly after the sex.

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  • You're my hero.

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  • TheLittleThief

    That's my boy! I'm the same way.

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  • handsignals

    99% of woman are up themselves.

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    • Haha, no.

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    • MakienzyGirl11

      No dude. That's a very broad statement you're making

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    You might have a low libido then. I will never get those who say "just be yourself" because if being myself is a recipe for chastity then there's clearly something I have to change (even if it means faking it)

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    • vagman30

      No it has nothing to do with low libido. I have a good sex drive. I have friends with benefits to fulfill those sexual needs of mine. It's just that I'm not gonna turn myself into something I'm not just to get a girl to fall in love with me because it's not worth it.

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals

        But you have fwb so you cheat lol. I don't have that luxury.

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