Is it normal that i don't care she got hurt?

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So my husband works with a guy named "Bruce". I've known Bruce's fiance' for about 12 years (I'm not fond of her but we have mutual friends) and a few months ago she tried to start drama between my husband and I because he found out she was cheating on Bruce. She called a mutual friend and said my husband had just slept with her friend "Jessica" and was trying to sleep with her as well. I told my husband and he never said anything to Bruce and he was against me saying anything to Bruce's fiance'.
My husband told me his morning that last night, she was in a bad car accident and is currently in the ccu. I said "that sucks" and went on about my business. My husband became quite agitated and told me to have some "compassion" because things aren't looking good. Is it normal that I don't care what happens to her?

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  • RougeTheBat
    11 years ago

    Karma..is a bitch.

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    • Ibelievethis
      11 years ago

      Well it depends on your a persons experience with karma. If karma pays back someone for doing bad then in my view that's a good thing. However if a person does good all the time and is never rewarded then that is unfair, too.xx

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      Karma's a bitch and I love her for it!

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  • Paradiddle
    11 years ago

    Of course this is normal. Just because someone gets hurt doesn't mean that all their prior sins just disappear and never happened. What she tried to do to you and your husband is unforgivable and childish so compassion is undeserved. Your husband isn't a bad person for feeling bad about what happened to her probably since she "is" another human being and no one should go through that but it still stands that she was very wrong and doesn't suddenly deserve attention, or ever.

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  • malkiot
    11 years ago

    She's not your friend, it seems that your experiences with here were more on the negative side, and she tried to harm your relationship. I don't see why you should care all too much.

    It's not like it'll affect you in a particularly big way, is it?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Good luck.

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    I think it's normal. You can't fake compassion. Honestly I wish all cheaters would get hurt like her.

    About twelve years ago I was married to a man who cheated on me with this awful whore from his work. I left him of course and he ended up marrying her. I try not to actively hate on them but if they were to get in a serious accident I couldn't care less and I certainly wouldn't have any compassion for them. I wouldn't celebrate but I wouldn't shed a tear for either of them. I would probably just believe it's their Karma. As far as I'm concerned Bruce's fiancée' got what she deserved. I'm sorry your husband got agitated with you. I guess I'm cold hearted because I don't see how someone could have compassion for a woman like her. She sounds like a really rabid skank.

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  • hidden_in_the_shadows
    11 years ago

    tell me again but slower.
    cat fish

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  • Maya05
    11 years ago

    I don't see why you should care that she got hurt. She isn't your friend nor will it effect you much either way.

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