Is it normal that i don't care/love my little sister?

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Ever since I could remember, I never got along with my little sister (who is only 1 and half year younger than me). As we got older, we started to have more problems and everyone passed it on as us just being siblings. We have already fought fist to fist about 5 times these last couple years. We are truly different in every sense of the word. She likes to drink, smoke, have sex with older guys, run away, and other stuff; while I stay home, am a virgin(my choice anyway), do good in school, etc (I am no saint, I do act up, cuss, and have a bad temper). I have friends like her so I don't know why I can't stand to be around her. I have told my mother that I feel obligated to love her when I don't even like. I don't wish harm on her (and only few times do I talk with her nicely) but I wouldn't be sad if I never got to see her again. I don't care for her and am really embarrassed to even know her, let alone be her sister. (I am now 18 and she is 16)

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  • sky38203
    9 years ago

    I feel the same towards my brother. Sometimes i get so angry i want to kill him, but i clench my teeth and i never act while angry. It is normal to feel this towards siblings...

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    At least she makes you the good child:)

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  • Mr-Myrtos
    9 years ago

    In your deep end you probably would like to be like her. Think about it.

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  • Tinybird
    7 years ago

    It reminds me of one of those sad Thai commercials with the two sisters..

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  • fratom
    9 years ago

    deep down you love your sister, she is your own flesh and blood I am certain both of you could hug each other as easy as you fisticups: Now is the time to sort it all out. sit, take her for a meal/drink and talk: I am an only child but I have had friends who just did not get along with their younger sibling too but talking solved a good number of them and they became real friends and would die for each other should anything happen to either of them. love each other

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