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I don't care what my hair looks like. I just randomly throw clothes on and I really dont care what people think. I dont wear makeup either.
I'm the same. I think its a complete waste of time and effort. When I start to put make up on I think what is the point? Who is it for? Who am I trying to impress? Some stranger on the street who doesn't know me and who I'll never see again. I really don't care, it just doesn't interest me. I think there are so many more important things in life to think about and things going on the world to worry about. What a waste of time, some girls spend an hour everyday getting ready, what a waste of an hour of your life everday. I just think it is superficial and fake because it is trying to cover up flaws that everyone and present an image of yourself that is false and everyone else is doing it which is stupid. I sometimes wonder why I care so little because I'm young and most people my age seem to care a lot. I think its just because I think about things a lot and if women stopped to analyse why they are doing everything they have become accustomed to think is normal like drawing black lines around their eyes they might think its stupid too because there is no pressure on men to waste their time doing these stupid things. It's become normal in society for women to wear make up and dye their hair but really it's normal to do nothing and be natural because all these products were only made up to make money off women's insecurities which were created or enhanced by the advertising agencies in the first place. Men do nothing, why should we do anything? What is the difference except the difference we have been made to feel. I prefer not giving in to all the crap and all the pressure, even if it means being the odd one out because makeup just makes me feels bimboey and fake anyway, not more attractive.
That's normal. My husband likes that I don't spend forever getting ready. But that's what attracted him to me. He said my face is beautiful without makeup.
I will try to look and smell nice for my man, but when I go to work I try to look my worst, so to speak.
Work = no make up, baggy clothes, no sexy underwear (unless it's laundry day and I dont have any normal ones clean), no perfume, and I just throw my hair up. That way I don't give off any impression to any guy that I would be remotely interested in them flirting. It actually really pisses me off when guys flirt with me when I'm in a relationship. Especially if I'm happy, which I very much am with my man <3
It's completely normal
I never really cared about this. I can wear the stuff for weeks on end. And I don't care how any of the stuff looks on me.
I find it weird that people would WASTE TIME CARING ABOUT THIS. Seriously. During my teen years, my friends would complain about how they looked, but honestly, they looked fine to me. And I wouldn't complain about it at all. They still do it sometimes.
I think it's normal not to want to put on makeup everyday, but just because some ladies do (like to put on makeup) doesn't necessarily make them "bimbos."
It has been a tradition in my family for as long as I can remember. I used to like to watch my mom put on makeup when I was a litte girl, and I always had fun watching my grandmother apply fun eyeshadows to match outfits. Some people actually consider it an art, and for many women, it is fun! Many different cultures have different ways of expressing themselves. Even American Indian women wore forms of makeup or had ways of beautifying themselves, and I don't think they were tainted by sexism and the evils of modern society.
I actually enjoy putting on my makeup before work. It makes ME feel bright,cheery and well put together. There are girls at work who don't wear makeup, and I think they are beautiful and perfectly normal. I think the problem lies with those who are judgmental of others.
Beauty comes in many shapes and forms. After watching my mom put on her makeup so many times, I have also seen her go without it just as many times.. I am also a woman who feels comfortable going with or without makeup. I have many friends and family members who see makeup as a way to express themselves. So, not all women feel improsioned by makeup, they actually feel empowered by it. I feel bad that guys can't join in on the fun if they wanted. That's sexist!
Believe it or not men do it to, men do feel the pressure to look good, but, it's not because of the advertising, it's because they want to look good for the ladies, so this is why, at least I think, that many women will try to look their best all the time, to look good for the men. That being said, I am a guy, and I sometimes spend twenty minutes trying to get my hair to lay flat, also, I shower, spend at least ten minutes brushing my teeth, wear deodorant, wear cologne, and take at least five minutes every day just to pick out my shirt. I also have a personal insecurities about how I look in shorts.
Just remember, ladies, that even though we are not as open or extreme about it, MEN HAVE INSECURITIES. And we also do our hair, make sure we have cool clothes, and look good in general. Why do you think we work out?
its normal but technically you do care about your appearance because i assume you do shower and change your clothes and brush your teeth :)
hehe just teasing!~
I dont think your normal, i think most people care about what they look like. I think this is some wierd self serving post that i cant quite understand enough to make judgement on you, which is unfortunate and frustrating for me.
Wellk if you don't care about what you look like or how people see you, then how can you ever be expected to receive respect..?
If you dress and act like you have a serious attitude problem, and don;'t shiv a git, howe you look and act, how can you expect people to be nice to you...
Dressing up, and loo0king nice, gains you access to EVERYWHERE... Dress like a sociual misfit, and you will be treated and thought of as less than "nice"... Biut by your words, it appears as though you couldn't give a rats bum how people perceive you... What a shame... Maybe one day, you'll grow up...And then again, maybe NOT
Rachelle In High Heels
Don't worry. I've been told all my life that I need to look a certain way... it kind of makes me want to rebel and not even "try" as hard as most girls do. I think girls who try so hard have very low self esteem which spells TROUBLE. I command you!
its fine not to wear make up or spend ages doing your hair and things like that. but do you at least keep clean? you just dont mention about showering, just throwing clothes on.