Is it normal that i don't care about having sex?

So you've made an appointment to lose your virginity? Is there an app for that?

If you're not enthusiastic about having sex, why have sex?

If all your friends really liked a particular band, but you thought they were pretty shit, would you pay $100 and drive three hours to go see them in concert?

It sounds to me like you pay far too much attention to the opinions of other people. It also sounds like the people you're listening to are pretty damn immature and stupid.

I lost my virginity more than forty years ago and I can tell you this: sex is a hell of a lot more fun if you and the person you're with really like each other and there's at least some sort of emotional connection.

I did once have sex in a situation that sounds a little like yours. After Navy Boot Camp, all my buddies were determined to go to a whorehouse. I wasn't really interested, but I went along just to go with the flow and because I was curious. I still clearly remember that encounter, but only because it was the most unexciting sex I've ever had. The only thing I learned is that sex can be pretty damn boring if it's mechanical and you're not into the woman you're with. Every single one of the women I've had relationships with over the years still features in my sexual fantasies from time to time, but I have never once thought of that prostitute when I masturbated.

You clearly don't respect the woman you're going to have sex with. That's scumbag behavior in my book. But even worse, it seems like you really don't respect yourself very much.

dont fuck a hoe man. find a virgin and experience sex with her . a whore is just cheap meat. a virgin never forgets who you are. besides if she is fucking the football team she probably has chlamydiae herpes or both , you dont need that just to say im no longer a virgin , its not worth it.

It may not seem normal now because of societal pressure and expectations. But eventually you may realize you're more on the asexual or demisexual end of the spectrum. And enjoying masturbation is independent of sexual attraction. And eventually when you do get laid, you may find sex enjoyable...but the sexual appeal and desire may be absent.

how old are you ?

Thanks for the input people

Normal? I wouldn't say so, though I relate a lot in some ways besides the masterbating, which I don't do. Could just be your style but for me it's hormonal, my brain doesn't make the sex chemicals it's supposed to to make me horny and aroused and all that. I don't have that urge to breed that other dudes and chicks get.

If it bothers you that you don't care they have medicine to get you going

Just get laid if its there and if you don't like it you dont have to do it again.

Have you ever had an older man gently rub your private parts while touching himself?

It's not normal, but your ability to inhibit your sexual attraction can work in your favor.

Sex is gross and our whole society revolves around it. Today you can't get famous or have lots of money without at least being dishonest or being a prostitute. When it's with someone that you love it's okay, but otherwise... Definitely not a fan

What's 3rd base? Baseball isn't often played outside your country, so euphemisms based on its terms aren't understood by most of the www.
Best to say what you mean in plain English.