Is it normal that i don't bother to talk?

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I'm finding this very, very strange mainly because of one thing, and that's my personality. I'm a really loud, energetic, fun and bubbly person. I'm always up for meeting new people, going out and having a laugh. But recently, i've noticed that sometimes I have these days where I basically can't be bothered with people. For example, if i'm out and I see someone I know i'd just blank them and walk away, or if someone tries to have a covnersation I will literally stand there and not listen to a word they're saying then I'd walk away, or I'd just keep myself to myself and go on my phone when I feel a conversation starting up around me. I find this extremly weird because I'm not usually like this. Also what makes it even weird, is that it doesn't happen when I'm upset or in a bad mood. If I were in a bad mood and it happened I wouldn't even bother wrting this. It's only ever happened on days were I'm honestly fine and are having a good day... So what's going on with me?

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  • myownopinions
    11 years ago

    Sometimes being an overenergetic/talkative person just zaps away all my energy later. Nowadays, I'm more labeled as the "quiet" type.

    I don't know, it's like you just have one of "those days". I'm not sure if I can really explain it.

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  • [email protected]
    11 years ago

    I never talk to anyone I don't have to.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Maybe you're an introverted extrovert (or vice versa). You could be suddenly realizing that it takes a lot of... well... /energy/ to be energetic or that small talk seems like a waste of time. It may or may not be a phase, but don't throw away your relationships or ignore people who are looking right at you in public. You might find it very hard to build them back up later...

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Maybe your social interests don't interest you as much as they once did. Interests and preferences change sometimes.

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  • CarloP
    11 years ago

    I used to be the same. And also stopped talking to people. Turned out I am bipolar. Since I started taking meds, it's been better, but I see everywhere that meds stop working after a couple months, and that's now happening to me. Don't think you can ever remain on the same meds for too long. The docs always change it...

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  • DameInDistress
    11 years ago

    Maybe your hormones are messing up? That happens to me sometimes, just ride with it. =)

    N. x

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    • CitrineSky
      11 years ago

      I guess so, I'll try to deal with it, thanks!

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      • DameInDistress
        11 years ago

        Hehe no problem! =)

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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    Everyone needs a break sometimes

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    maybe you are becoming introspective and your thoughts are taking you somewhere more interesting

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  • mimic
    11 years ago

    well way waste energy talking these days, all conversations revolve on the same topics... Facebook, my new..., look have you seen, basically same persons with the same shit to say

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  • katiestars
    11 years ago

    its just quite anti social just try to make an effort and fight it because if you just let it run its course its going to get even worse :/

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    • CitrineSky
      11 years ago

      Yeah I know, i'll just get high ;) lol jk

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