Is it normal that i don't believe in love?

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I really think that love doesn't exist. I always say that to my friends , but they say "one day you're going to fall in love very deeply and you're going to freak out". I know there are some girls say "Mmm yeah there is nothing called love haha xoxo" , but I'm not the same like them. I really don't believe it and all my friends say the same thing "yes , it exist but you didn't met with that feeling yet". What can I do with my friends and my feeling about something stupid called "love"?

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    12 years ago

    Of course it doesn't exist. There's only attraction for selfish reasons and that's how survival of the species worked for the past billions of years. What we call love is just a perception, a side-effect of being attracted to a particular person at a certain time. Find a more attractive one and you'll see how you still "love" him/her. LOL

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  • DolphinAngel
    12 years ago

    Love is a feeling... feelings can't get proven by science... so literally no one of us can say if they really exist... it's like religion... you can say you believe or not you don't know... believe is about 50/50 but when you admit you don't know you are 100% sure =P

    So I'll grab Floydzies answer and say that Love or religion or wahtever is what you make out of it... if you're happy with it then that's fine!!!

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      This is almost exactly what I say when people ask me this and they all think I'm weird or something..Lol. It's nice to know someone out there has the same thoughts on this subject. :)

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  • auroraborealis
    12 years ago

    It is your life and if you don't want to believe in love, you will not be forced to participate in it.

    In my opinion, love is a chemical produced by our brains for the purpose of reproduction. So, yeah, it exists but its not this ridiculous fictional thing that will change your entire life. After people fall in love and get married, they must commit to each other and the relationship, because honestly YES the initial feelings will change to something less impressive, and its completely normal.

    I think most people's view of love as this amazing irrevocable permanent thing that will save the world is the problem... because real love isn't like that. Real love is being with your husband for 50 years, working out your problems and differences together and still being happy with one another. Compromise and commitment should be celebrated, not necessarily "love"

    So I agree to a certain extent. Most people's definition of the word love does not exist. But the chemical properties of love or more realistically, infatuation for the purposes of reproduction do.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I understand where you're coming from to a certain extent...but then I learned the meaning of love 17 years ago when my first child was born. Not just love..but absolute and unconditional love.

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  • dancee((
    12 years ago

    It's kinda like this..you have to believe to receive, it's up to you, if you don't believe in love then that's all on you but if maybe one day there will be this one person to really throw you off guard...you never know just keep your eyes open((;

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