Is it normal that i don't accept a girlfrind who is not a virgin?

I'm a 22 year old virgin man and i never had a serious relationship, because i can't stand the ideia of beeing with a girl who had sex with other mans.
Perhaps i could accept a girl as a girlfriend, but i can even imagine such a girl as my future wife and mother of my kids.
I feel like if she had betrayed me after we start dating.

Taking the fact that i'm 22, can i ask for such thing? I if i do, what odds do i have of finding such a girl?

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  • Darkoil

    It's very immature, although most guys won't admit it, the only reason they don't like the idea of having sex with a girl who has been with other men is because they are scared they won't be as good as the other guys. For a one night stand this probably isn't an issue because you would just be looking to get off but to be with a girl you care about and not know for sure your the best she has had, well that can bring up jealous emotions and feelings of inadequency. You need to get out there and fuck, then when you finally meet a girl who is a virgin or not at the very least you will be able to pleasure her, probably. To be a god in the bedroom takes 100s of sex sessions.

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  • GuessWho

    I'm with OP on this.
    For me, it's more in the sense of "I don't want someone else's second-hand goods"
    It'd be like you're with the college slut, just a few years later.
    Imagine telling your kids that "Mommy fucked many guys before she met me" - not exactly something to be proud of.
    It's also like a guarantee that she is STD-free.

    I don't know about the odds of finding such a girl since so many people have meaningless sex nowdays, But keep looking.

    If she hasn't given it up for someone else before, she places high value on herself, and you should too.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    depends. that might change once you find someone you love.

    besides how will you know she's a virgin? the hymen can break without sexual penetration.

    besides even if she's not a virgin - you may be wrong in assuming she's a slut. some girls give it up early only to regret it. same that they have to be labeled as "not good enough" over something like that.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    Or some girls are more concerned with living their lives than "waiting for my soulmate to come!!!1" Eh no. I don't think sex and virginity are a big deal at all. The first time isn't magical, isn't special, isn't the best thing thats ever happened to you in your life.

    Its stumbling and awkward and usually very anticlimactic. You have to learn how your body works, how others body works. My first time sure wasn't a big deal to me, but there have been very meaningful relationships in my history.

    And for those of you saying if a girl sleeps around she has no respect for herself, shove that statement as far up your ass as it'll go. Here's how it works. "I love myself, I love my body. My body could use some loving. I think Ill go find someone to have some fun with tonight"

    See how easy that was? It is possible to have respect for yourself and sleep around, because YOU WANT IT.

    Sometimes, oh this website I feel like an adult in a room full of children

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  • justsomekidfromcanada

    It's a little weird but I get it.

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  • Pisslan616

    I don't really see why you should care.

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