Is it normal that i do this?

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I really resent anyone asking me a question, especially if they are asking me to do something. When someone asks me something I will have to do the opposite of it just to punish them for asking me, even to the point of when it inconveniences me. For example if someone asks me to clean out my car, they just made it so I can't do it for a few more days even though I would have probably done it if they didn't ask, causing me the burden of having a messy car for another week. Another example is yesterday my mom told me to call my dad for fathers day. I was going to but since she kept reminding me I decided not to. I do this all the time and while I realize that this sets me back, I do it anyways. When I do decide to do something that someone told or reminded me to do I will fantacize about how I would like to hurt them and feel extreme anger towards them for a few days.

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  • flowergirl87
    10 years ago

    Look up Oppositional Disorder. It's often described as a 'childhood disorder', but I think it can exist in children, young adults and adults. Interesting to read about if nothing else. There's a difference between OD and just not liking to be told what to do, though. My Mum often used to tell me I had it because I didn't always do what people told me to straight away and didn't really care if teachers told me off at school. I wasn't scared of authority either (that doesn't mean I didn't respect it). I don't think I had/have it, though. I think I'm just headstrong and don't see why I should take orders if there's no real pressing reason?! : / Also, I was criticised way too much as a child and that had an impact too.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Why do you hate people asking you questions?

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  • Lilbit2much
    10 years ago

    Strangely, I have this problem too. Ill do thingson my own if i feel like it, but if people tell me too then ill ignore them. And i usually only do things such as cleaning if there is no one home, if people are around: no way!

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  • Siggypoo72
    10 years ago

    Do you feel this way about any questions, or merely requests? It's important to make the distinction between the two.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      It depends on the question. I have no problem saying no to requests. I think it bothers me the most when the question intrupts what I am doing.

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  • highrider
    10 years ago

    Wats wrong with questions? Are they to questiony for u? Are u shy? Insecure? Do u think in court ud have a freak out? Would u be able to tape it for me if u ever were in court? Am i bothering u? Is this to many questions? Dont u know i love questions? Cant u see i can ask them all day? Am i to questiony for u? Would u ever get a dog? Or are u more of a cat person? Dont u think both breeds are awesome in there own way? If u had a cat wat breed would u get? Wat about for a dog?

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  • GenerationOfTheHopeless
    10 years ago

    Can you be awesome? :D

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  • Fabulous
    10 years ago

    Why dont u go pee in a jar and smash it into ur fucken face

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  • DangerousPotatoGuy
    10 years ago

    en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oppositional_defiant_disorder

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  • DangerousPotatoGuy
    10 years ago

    "sweety can you go and...", >_< "I was going to..., fuck this i'm not doing it anymore!"

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  • kaegrl23
    10 years ago

    i hate being told what to do, or asked what to do. it pisses me off also

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  • Energy
    10 years ago

    Can you be awesome? :D

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  • college
    10 years ago

    I absolutely despise being told what to do, even when "asked" to do something. However, this is definitely not a very healthy quality for us to have, sometimes we just have to listen to others.

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