Is it normal that i do not want to date for the rest of my life?

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all my life (20) every time i was in a relationship it was fun and nice for a while, but then the girl either gets tired of me or doesn't like me anymore and dumps me. So after being dumped for the 4th time i told myself i will never be dumped again, my friends think i should talk to girls again and that its not healthy to be alone, any advice???

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago

    You will find someone, just dont be too anxious about it (people can sense that). Enjoy the ride :)
    Also, relationships before 20 I wouldnt condsider very ......... well..... how do I....all of my relationships before 20 didnt last (I have had 4 longer term ones that I thought were it, but they wern't upon closer inspection)
    If you arent sure if its you or them, maybe do a bit of self analyzation - write out all of your strengths and weeknesses as you see them and make some adjustments as you see fit

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    • bigt09
      12 years ago

      thanks for the advice and i did do that pros and cons thing after every relationship, and i know that im young but almost all of my friends my age have at least one relationship where they ended it mutually. Im starting to think that im that guy girls step over to find mr perfect lol

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      • MissClaire
        12 years ago

        Thats not likely true lol. There is someone out there for you, in most cases it takes time to find someone who 'fits' just perfectly in your life. You dont want to rush to find this person as you may cut some corners so to speak and not end up with what you want. From my experience and from what I have noticed: when people dont look at their relationship through HONEST eyes, they end up in a long term relatioanship that is not ideal for them...... from there comes the resentment and the urge to cheat and be hurtful - you dont want to spend your life like that :) Hence, I think alot of failed marriages are a result of this RUSH to be in a relationship (In my opinion).
        So take the time to make sure its right. You will find her/him :)

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  • plainsight90
    12 years ago

    At least you have experience. I've met people who are in their early 20's and never been in any type of relationship.

    Besides, are you 20 or 45? cuz 20 is really young and you should be enjoying your life. You're biggest mistake would be to waste time being down cuz you don't have a girlfriend. It's not a big deal at all, I promise.

    I just turned 21. My very first relationship was 2.5 yrs, my 2nd was 2 months and I just broke up with my third bf of 2 months recently. Guess what? I actually like being single and embrace it.

    NEVER SETTLE. Keep on trucking my friend.

    ;)

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    • bigt09
      12 years ago

      yeaa i feel you on that and i know being single can be fun but to me being with someone that you care about is more fun then being single

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