Is it normal that i do not want a girlfriend?

I am a young man, and I can honestly say that I do not have much interest in the female gender specifically. Meaning I have next to no interest in them, at least not in a romantic sense. I'm not sexist in any way, either, nor have I ever felt prejudice or discontent with the female gender.

That being said, I've never had a girlfriend, either.

I can be quite sure, at least 95%, that I am not homosexual (nothing is absolute), so that's out of the question.

I'm thinking that I am perhaps not mature enough, yet, or at the very least, am still maturing. But if I take homosexuality and maturity out of the equation, I'd automatically think of responsibility. But I don't necessarily hate being given responsibility, nor am I unreliable. So what gets left is simply either asexuality or an unnatural lack of testosterone hormones. Both are an unlikely solution. So... essentially, I'm clueless.

Perhaps you can give me an idea in the comments.

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  • TheDentist

    It would help if you told us how old you are.

    Yes, you sound asexual. It's not a bad thing, either. Think of the unnecessary emotional turmoil you won't have to go through.

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    • Anonymous Poll Creator

      I am 15.

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  • KingTermite

    Sounds like you either have some fairly warped ideas about what "having a girlfriend" means or there's more going on than you've expressed.

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    • Ebolohammeh

      What happened to the "you are a fucking idiot" guy?

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      • KingTermite

        I think he's on vacation, you're welcome to pick up some extra shifts in his absence.

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        • Ebolohammeh

          Thanks.

          You are a fucking idiot.

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  • Shiny_Down

    It could also just be that you haven't met the right girl yet. It sounds simple and cliche, but it's true- we're not necessarily wired to want a relationship with every nice girl we meet. I knew pretty quickly that I was meant to date both of my girlfriends because I actually wanted to pursue them. I'd just be patient and not label yourself :) You have a lot of life left to live before jumping to conclusions.

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  • TheDentist

    I wonder how long until Ebolohammeh/Steve2.0 posts some misanthropic stuff on here. It will probably involve the phrase: "love is nothing but an illusion" or "the human spirit is weak" or "I pretend to go to an elite university but I'm really just a fat, balding high school dropout with no friends.

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    • Ebolohammeh

      Surprise! Stop trying to insult me, you prole. It won't work, and my opinion stands on high intelligence. So go back to pretending you're a dentist.

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  • Switchedholeswithoutwarning

    I don't want a Gf, just sex.

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