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I was really close to my maternal grandmother but I didn't really talk to my grandfather. My nana died in 2009 and he got married to this stupid psycho bitch 3 months later. I let it go because it wasn't really anything I could do bit he just died about 2 months ago and it had no affect on me whatsoever. IIN?
He was old. That's what happens. If you don't feel any connection that's the way it was, Don't judge him or yourself harshly - people do impulsive things even when they're old. He probably just didn't want to be alone.
I've never known sorrow for those i have never known.
-Someone... but no one in particular.
Totally. My maternal grandfather did something similar, marrying a crazy woman in old age. His children tried to warn him that she was crazy but he didn't listen. I grew up never meeting my paternal grandfather. Ever since I was little I heard family constantly say bad things about him. I literally never heard a good thing about him. When news came that he died, my first reaction was that it was a good thing. Everyone in the family got so shocked and sad and I was actually shocked by their response when all they had done when he was alive was bad-mouth him.
I felt no sadness when my grandmother died a couple of years ago. In my heart I was relieved because the life she was living was a happy one. My aunt was not treating the old lady well and she was blind. When she died I was almost happy for her.
My maternal grandfather was kind of a terrible person, so when he died I more felt bad for my mom & grandmother than sad that he had died.