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So, not to discourage anybody who hasn't, but I've lost my virginity. I was one of those people who thought they would never lose their virginity, and I had never kissed a girl before... So I ended up losing my virginity before I had ever kissed a girl, is this normal?
Sadly, it's so easy to get carried away by sexual feelings, and your "animal" instincts take over, while your emotional self is left far behind somewhere. As you sort out your feelings and needs, you may consciously decide that even though you "want" to, it's not going to be truly satisfying unless there's an affectionate and trusting relationship in place.
I'm saying that stuff happened backwards; I had never ever kissed a girl and then I ended up having sex. Also, it wasn't with an "escort" or anything of the sort, it was with my best friend who I've known for about a year. Overall, I don't mind the decision I made, I just feel that its weird that I had sex before having my first kiss or anything.
It's much better with kissing, but you'll have another chance one day, right. Sorry it wasn't an ideal experience for you, that's a bummer.