Is it normal that i detest my mother?

On my dads side of the family, there are tons of artists, philosophers, intellectuals of all sorts who have traveled the world and became famous authors, musicians and other sorts of people. They are all highly intelligent wealthy people. They are also kind and loving.

My moms side of the family are coldhearted, mean snobs. None of them are even slightly educated, traditionally or otherwise. From my mother's side of the family, I got extreme OCD, Schizophrenia, Anxiety, Depression, A high disposition for breast cancer, super-sensitivity(I cry at almost everything... I'm a man for god's sakes)Nearsightedness, astigmatism, and countless other hindrances. The part I hate the most is the laziness. I give up after about 10 minutes of doing anything. I could have been a famous artist, actor, screenwriter, author, literally about ANYTHING I wanted if it weren't for my mom's genes. My mom is the laziest person imaginable. I once visited her in the fall, and while eating breakfast outside the milk was left on the porch. I came back 2 months later and the milk was STILL SITTING ON THE PORCH. She is quite undeniably insane.

It has depressed me to see my childhood home fall into such disrepair because of my mothers laziness. Everyday I think I see myself turn more into my mother (stuttering, forgetting words, forgetting what day it is) and I want to kill myself and her for poisoning my dad's gene pool with her degenerate bloodline. I curse fate every morning and every night because I'll never be who I want to be becaue of this woman.

IS this normal?

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55% Normal
Based on 38 votes (21 yes)
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  • you're funny

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  • MrM

    if you're lazy you're just lazy, blaming your genes would be like Micheal Jackson never becoming a great musician because of his musicly dysfunctional parents.

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  • gamerzgirl101

    Well while it's a little weird for you to HATE her, i can understand. By the way people have explained it....my mother was like that to. Lazy, uncaring...for gods sake, they could be exaggerating but i heard she was on the pc most of the time and she just put me in the play-pen with a box of cereal. She left my dad when i was 2 years old after my dad god ownership of me. So with all the bad genes, i understand. You could try to talk to your mom and dad about this, see what they think about it. And for the laziness problem, just keep telling yourself to finish it or...make a goal. Make a goal to get a certain amount done one day, and then the next do the same. Keep doing it until whatever it is your doing is finished if it's a project of some-sort. That helps me cause im pretty lazy xD i got the laziness and the...what you could say...addiction, from my mom's side. The loving games from my dad's, the laziness from my mom's. Though i don't leave a carton on mile out for 2 months ._.

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